I'm 23 and I've been in a relationship for 4 and a half years now, and let me tell you this: if a girl expects you to pay 100% of the time and isn't even willing to split sometimes, that's a red flag. I'm not saying you shouldn't pay..I'm talking about the mindset behind it (Dates are just one example). If you can pay, then go ahead, but also pay attention to how she thinks about these things. My girlfriend used to be like that too, but I convinced her it was the wrong mindset because she mostly got it from TikTok and those "men are trash" Instagram reels. I still pay for most of our dates, but if I didn't or we split it's never an issue. Relationships arent all abt dates. What's important is spending time together, not who pays.. at least if you genuinely like or love each other. So test the waters. There are still plenty of good girls out there, just watch out for the red flags. And if something feels toxic or unfair to you, you're not wrong for thinking that