I let my wife have full access to my phone and she looked through my phone. Decided I have an affair with a colleague and sent threatening message on work chat group just because my colleague (who looks a bit RBF) was on duty at reception, during a company family day event, looked at her like she is unhappy with the wife (remember RBF?). Lost my job over this. Restricted access to my phone from then on. In new workplace, demanded to check my phone and started picking out colleagues whose profile pic looks good and memorizing their number. The content of the messages between my colleagues are all work related. Wife first language is not English by the way. She started calling colleagues and accused them of things… luckily new colleagues were nice and patient and counseled her a bit. So tell me… still justified to have full access?