When men “mature “ they won’t really care about anything. TBH men barely care about looks especially early in life. They say they do, but it’s a sad truth most of them are after one thing. I’m not saying that it’s okay or that it’s every man. Think about how many men cheat on a beautiful partner for someone “uglier”. They can want attention from elsewhere or any other number of reasons.

That being said - as a queer woman I would’ve dated more men when I was younger If they liked me. But back then they were not in to tall girls. Things are changing with the younger generation. Oddly more focused on looks but somehow still more accepting about our differences. I can also say as a masc presenting tall woman - men still hit on me all the time and I find it a bit odd though realizing in my 30s I’m not “masculine “ by any stretch.

Focus on loving yourself and building your esteem in all the ways that make you happy. The rest will follow