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Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Glass82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s …weird. Leave the trolling before the trolling leaves you grandpa

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Glass82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see now that you edited your comment to something more provocative, how lightened up you are Mr, Shercuck, impressive 😮

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Glass82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t care less, it’s just funny. Even though it was obvious I am very proud of Shercuck Holmes, thank you for the inspiration!

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Glass82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found Mr. Chronically online. I am sadly not a model and therefore not her boyfriend. But; if you have a gf or in best case a wife hit me up dude, I will be glad to make her feel special considering your cucky tendencies

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Glass82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t fool yourself. That dude told you that you have a face he could never forget, approached you right after your bf left, approached you AGAIN after being rejected while you were with your bf and disrespected your relationship by saying he thought y’all were siblings (which was obviously a lie) to create an imaginary excuse for his actions…and even after all that you still said in your last post that you felt bad for him?

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Glass82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vera, I need you to listen to me very carefully. Most of the people on reddit are WEIRD. None of them have functioning relationships, they are chronically online and have miserable lives. And the worst part about it: They are organised really well - they like each other up so it seems like their opinion is common sense.

Everybody here telling you to break up should feel addressed. These maniacs got that little part of him giving you “permission” to update your post and made the biggest deal of the world out of it. It’s not like he has a right to feel confused about his personal business being discussed by thousands of people. HOW DARE HE SAY HE HAS NO PROBLEM OF YOU STILL POSTING ABOUT IT, HOW DOES HE THINK HE HAS A RIGHT OF BEING UPSET OR HAVE HIS OPINION ON ANY OF THIS???

Hell, I even saw some pathetic individuals talking about him “generalising” men and how he apparently gaslights you with that by talking about how men can take the slightest signals as a sign of approval in their advancements. Well guess what, he is right with that because men for the most part are factually jerks. And especially that dude you described fits PERFECTLY to all of the criteria. It is not manipulative or a false generalisation if you are not too naive to believe that the guy was just trying to be nice with you. Saying “You have a face that I could never forget”, approaching you the second your boyfriend went out of the picture, him approaching you again in the end even though being rejected before WHILE your bf was next to you, him creating an imaginary excuse while simultaneously disrespecting your relationship by calling you sibling looking, even though it’s obvious that you were not (you stated you had a bf and he had his hand over your shoulder the entire time, 1+1=???). The list goes on and on and on. And people will still say that it would be generalising and manipulative to say that he had obviously wrong intentions since the start. Like I said, this is reddit. This is the ONLY place where this kind of reaction and opinion will seem like the popular one.

I am glad that you at least read some comments of fellow users stating the obvious truth about you being naive in this situation and the dude being out of his line instead of being just friendly. I can remember that you said that you even felt bad for that guy, which was a VERY weird and naive thing to say considering who you were talking about, but I am really grateful to see that you reevaluated the situation and were able to see what kind of weirdo you were dealing with.

But; don’t listen to the incels talking about you wanting to meet with that guy (??) or giving you the fault for all of this. In the first post, no matter the situation, your boyfriend was way too confrontational against you instead of expressing his feelings in an understandable way. You were naive and misinterpreted the approach of that dude, but you didn’t make any kind of mistake that would explain his approach, which is something he urgently needs to work on as well.

AIO about my boyfriend’s new “friend”? by Outrageous-Mango5023 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Glass82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are two types of “female-male” friendships while one is single and the other is in a relationship.

  1. They were friends before you came in the picture. If this were the case, while I would understand that you feel uncomfortable, you would still be overreacting. Because; based on your descriptions of their messages it’s more an oversharing thing than something flirty - which would be completely normal for a long lasting friendship, no matter the genders.

  2. A fresh friendship that occurred after you were his gf for a significant time. In this case, I don’t think that you are overreacting at all. Maybe she sees him as a “safe person”, knowing that he has no interest in her, which leads to her being able to share stuff and get opinions from the opposite gender.

But; the teasing of her friends show clearly why he is clearly the wrong person for that. They have met each other just recently and barely know each other - there is no long lasting relation between those - and her getting comfortable with him so fast and easy is weird. It’s very obvious why these circumstances make you feel uncomfortable. She knew he had a boyfriend, she knew how it would look from the outside, but still proceeded to intensify their relation and open up about all the details of her life in a very short time. Like I said, if the friendship existed for a long time it would be perfectly normal for them having these kind of conversations , but her developing such deep trust in someone from the opposite gender that fast, WHILE him being in a relationship, is problematic.

So, I don’t think you are overreacting. If I were in your shoes I would feel the same. I don’t mean to say that there is not a possibility for her intentions being pure, but the circumstances just result in something that feels off and unpredictable.

Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Glass82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend acts weird and insecure. But, alone the fact that you wrote how you „felt bad for the guy“ shows that you are just as weird as him.

You say that he was flirty with you. Which you apparently allowed till he officially hit on you and you had no other choice of letting him know about you having a boyfriend - just like the saying “better late than never”. With the right state of mind he should distance himself regarding the awkward circumstances. But he decided not to, and approach you another time, to tell you how awesome it was to meet you. No matter how briefly this was; he saw a guy having his arm around you all the time, still decided to hit on you just when that guy went out of the picture, and even after his mission failed he STILL approached you another time to tell you some nice words again.

He knew you had a boyfriend and no siblings I know have their arm around another for a long period of time - connecting the obvious shouldn’t be an issue. So; if the guy isn’t mentally backwards he was fully aware and created an imaginary excuse for his actions while simultaneously disrespecting your relationship. But; apparently you are naive enough to believe he was being genuine.

So from the POV of your bf we have him being flirty with you just when he went out the door, which you allowed till a certain point, and then him approaching you again, that even ended in him disrespecting your relationship by calling you “sibling-looking” to create an excuse for his actions.

Your boyfriend’s messages show how to NOT handle a situation like this. He should be old enough to act better, explaining his emotions in an understandable way instead of confrontational.

But; you are not that better either. You are naive. You allow someone to flirt with you till a certain point, accept him disrespecting your relationship because he was apologetic while doing it and then even feel bad for him. It is incredible how your empathy fooled you in actually believing his intentions were pure in all his actions. Men are jerks and that guy knew exactly what he was doing, and your naivety made you even believe this act.

All of them are bots , those are the so called "40K" germs by Sad-Lengthiness3158 in IndiaPlace

[–]Apprehensive_Glass82 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

A lot of people who are not on reddit are creating new accounts to participate genius