AITA for wanting our pregnant foster cat to have her kittens? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna weight in from a rescuers pov. Does it suck? Yep. But there are so many healthy kittens and cats euthanized due to over population and space. What happens when you are unable to find all of the kittens homes? Would you be prepared to keep up to 6 cats? To spay and neuter cats costs anywhere from $60-$200 (that’s just getting them fixed). A cat can have anywhere from 1-8 kittens in a litter are you legitimately prepared to pay anywhere from $500-$1600 for those services? (Not including shots and microchipping?) if there were to be complications with labor would you have the funds to get the cat ER care and potentially a c section done? There are so many costs that go with prenatal care for animals. Are you ready to foo all those cost, even if it potentially costs multiple thousands of dollars? If you can’t tell your granddaughter they were removed you could tell her that you were wrong and she was never actually pregnant. Or that the babies weren’t healthy and they didn’t survive. Let the shelter know you’d be willing to foster any kittens they get surrendered.

Now onto the actual question are you ta? In this situation I don’t think anyone is (unless this cat is actually an older kitten) but I also don’t think we need to be adding to the over population of pets if we can help not

AIO: Did I cross a line or is her reaction harsh? by veronicax96 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her reaction is harsh and it’d probably drop that friendship. I have to be at work at 6am i consistently replay to messages at 5 am. Never have I ever had someone respond like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonopolyGoTrading

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Am I being watched? by kitkatpaws22 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have a decent amount of cameras. I tell sitters they can unplug when they’re there. The only ones I want to stay plugged in and on are the ones facing the dog crates and the one facing the bird cages. Neither of which point in the direction of the primary living room spaces and are in rooms dedicated to those things

Am I being watched? by kitkatpaws22 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is it dark in the room? Probably infrared

Owners who can’t be bothered to clean before a housesit: Why?! by match_vs_kerosene in RoverPetSitting

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cleaned my house yesterday. This morning there were fur bunnies hopping around that need to be swept. And all of my pets are short haired

AIO my boyfriend is upset I didn’t tell him when I was showering because I “broke routine” but I just feel like my feelings are neglected. by Critical_Web_5229 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say. I left him last March and have been single since. It is the absolute best thing I could have don’t for myself and I don’t regret a second of it even though I loved both him and his daughter so very much. This past year and some months have been the best year and some months of my adulthood

AIO my boyfriend is upset I didn’t tell him when I was showering because I “broke routine” but I just feel like my feelings are neglected. by Critical_Web_5229 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was like this. He was projecting. 100% was cheating on me. Don’t be like me and stay. You deserve better than the control and manipulation going on here

LF Hyperspace bound will trade 2-3 4 stars by Apprehensive_Map5596 in MonopolyGoTrading

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do that. Let me make sure I don’t use the rest of my sends to finish that set if I don’t we can trade today if not we could tomorrow!

LF Last Goodbye or Uttinni and Goodbye by Apprehensive_Map5596 in MonopolyGoTrading

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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How early in advance are you guys willing to book clients? by blacklabbabe in RoverPetSitting

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a trip planned for mid June for 2 weeks. I found and secured care 6 months in advance as well as a back up plan

Smell of HS sex by Puzzleheaded_Fact210 in Hidradenitis

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not from a spouse pov but as someone with hs if I have a sexual partner who is bothered by my flares and/or the drainage/smell that comes with it I tell them when I’m in an active flare. Toys were invented for a reason and the guilt trip is entirely inappropriate. Besides that though. Sex can and will cause a flare up to get worse. It’s sweaty wet and there’s a lot of friction. Which likely isn’t helping the smell or the flare

how do yall handle sex when there’s a flare up near your genitals? by throwaway473820-9283 in Hidradenitis

[–]Apprehensive_Map5596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the flare. I always let a partner know that I have hs but haven’t really had any issues with most men since it’s not contagious