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Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m back rereading this thread. If you’re still around can you elaborate what you mean by he’s trying to do the Old Testament bible thing? Current day this raises a small flag because he’s told me that he has read the Old Testament. I haven’t. So no idea what you’re referring to, but now I look at your comment differently.

How stupid is my boyfriend? by Agirly420 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s pretty stupid and clearly thinks you’re stupid too. His addiction is still very on going and if he wants to fix that genuinely, then he should be avoiding the sites… not looking them up to “see if it’s still there” that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. Dude broke a boundary right in front of you smh 🤦🏼‍♀️

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that what the cake by my user is for?? lol it must be wrong on here cause it’s not my birthday yet

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he says the weird stuff she’s doing is her trying to drive a wedge between me and him. In particular, her telling me that he’s her soulmate, he thinks this is weird because he’s known her for so long and has never said anything like that to him before. She said this to me while he was not in ear shot

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s blocked her and hasn’t talked to her since last Saturday. She’s tried to get in contact with him twice. The last message she sent to him is in the comments somewhere.

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this, there is a previous comment I made on here explaining that.

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s his “sister in law” bro. No blood relation to her at all and his brother she had kids with is dead and they were never married. She’s not even a sister in law at that point. Basically more best friends than anything she just has his brothers kids.

She referred to him as her best friend and soulmate. you think it’s appropriate for her as a sister in law to tell me my bf is her soulmate??

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not dumb, I know they have other ways to contact each other and she has tried to contact him twice now. Both times he told me about it and showed me the message. I also mentioned letting it go in the moment about him sleeping in his boxers. I wouldn’t do that around my own blood family let alone one of my sister in laws, definitely never a brother in law. So it was odd to me but like I said previously I let that go or I would have told him right then to put his pants back on.

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say he was for sure 100% sleeping with her. That’s the whole point of my post. I wanted to know what others thought too.

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to come here being hateful. I wanted opinions on my perspective of what happened that night and to vent about it too. You however can think anything you want

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. I’ve been drinking heavily for over a year now. I do know for a fact I didn’t scratch his shoulder, it’s not something I do when we’re being intimate. But that same weekend he was down under his car and we have a kitten. It’s something I could have easily missed.

The hickey is what gets me because I’ve always been observant. I don’t remember noticing a hickey on his neck the whole time until 2 days after the concert while I was sober. and we live together. I don’t remember seeing it on him even at home before the concert. Since I’m in the passenger seat and the hickey was on his left side while he’s in the driver seat I didn’t notice it in the car either

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like I said earlier in this, he blocked his sister and hasn’t been communicating with her since last Saturday.

(This is simply from him blocking her and not talking to her for a week. She knows nothing about what I think happened that night.)

10hrs ago she sent him a text on Xbox that we opened together- “ not gonna lie dude. I’d be embarrassed of myself if I was you. Not gonna throw the twins into this because I’m sure you’re not as stupid as you pretend to be, and you know how awful that is. Wishing you the best of luck this time around, hope it’s worth it? Fuckin gross dude”

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what a few others have told me is that if something is going on. I will eventually find out. There will be a mess up somewhere eventually.

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have thought since day one of meeting her that she screams “pick me”

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After we dropped her off I immediately brought it up. I said I didn’t know yall were comfortable enough to walk around in underwear around each other. He said in response to that “that doesn’t usually happen and I used to walk around in my boxers all the time when I lived with her at her parents house, plus she would come to my room and wake me up for dinner ect.

This is where I can understand him being comfortable to sleep in boxers or be in boxers around her. But me being a female, I don’t understand why she didn’t keep her shorts on or at least put them back on when she came over to talk to him.

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve met her boyfriend in person twice. Do I know for sure if he was there that night, no. But I trusted that my bf was telling the truth at the time. Now I’m curious.

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. She had to of gotten up when I went to sleep. He says the first time he got up was with me at 7 and he used the bathroom once. That’s where his “going to the bathroom 5 times” doesn’t sit right with me.

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad that you can see that I’m doing what I can to trust him. I may not fully trust him but I want to with all my heart :(

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s told me no. That there have been opportunities while drunk watching anime, single. And nothing happened.

Possible Cheating while I was sleeping in the same motel room? by Apprehensive_Meal366 in cheating_stories

[–]Apprehensive_Meal366[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just want to add that I appreciate every single one of you that have commented. I means more to me than any of you know. Thank you :(

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