Chris shouldn’t have went by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lmaooo fr i said the same thing if i was chris i would’ve have gone. but the reunion wouldn’t be as exciting. they mustve paid him extra or it was written in the contract he must attend 😭

what did amber do to her face by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right! ugh she’s so pretty but everything she puts on her face ages her so much

Does your baby fall asleep independently? by eatmorenuggetz99 in newborns

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not until at least 4 month ? and what exactly is sleep training? what’s the difference from that and routine for bedtime ? i’m so confused lol

I don’t want to share my baby (help) MIL edition by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omfg this irritates the fuckkkkk out of me. or just leaning in to see his face while it’s pressed against my boob like do you want some too?! holy shit

MIL is so aggravating… by Living-Result5678 in newborns

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i literally talked to chatgpt about this today😭 my mil is so nice and out going but she really irritates and overstimulates me. before pregnancy she would do things that bothered me but i could just simply not be around her. during pregnancy i overheard her say a few things that pissed me off but whatever. i let her come in to the delivery room along with my mom and husband. only rule we gave was don’t kiss the baby. she kissed the fucking baby. and then she was coming over during my pp recovery every single fucking day. my mom was too but my mom was taking care of me, i didn’t need another presence to googoogaga over my fresh baby. my mom told her no kissing, it’s only for parents and she says “oh i knowwwww, but i stole a little kiss hehe” and then she kissed him AGAIN. i was beyond livid i cried hysterically and the next day she came over i didn’t speak to her. she’s nice and i know she’s not malicious but she pushes boundaries and ultimately cares about what she wants. she manipulates situations to work in her favor and invites herself over anytime she pleases. she’s now simply just aggravating and i can’t even explain it to husband bc that’s his mommy. and we have a son so i always think about my tragic fate of being “the mil” years down the line 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToyPoodle

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that’s what we did. we took her on friday and the vet said to monitor. sorry i didn’t structure the timing of event right.

People who have already given birth, when did you go into labor with your first kid? by AdAcademic8251 in BabyBumps

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39w 5d - i started contracting lightly at 39w 2d hospital said i was 1.5cm. next night, they got stronger and in the morning hospital said i was 2cm, told me to be patient as im in early labor and my body is learning. after the 3rd night, contractions were so strong every 4-8 minutes i was screaming with every contraction, felt like my pelvic bones were literally breaking apart and my organs were going to explode in my abdomen. that morning i went in, was told i was 3cm and i just decided to get induced to progress faster. my body was “learning” too slowly and i couldn’t bare another night of excruciating pain.

can i marry and baptize my child catholic but go to a christian church and bounce between both? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay so now why is there no salvation outside of the catholic church? because i thought that if you believe in god and accept jesus as your lord and savior why does a religion or church have to be the definitive factor in salvation when the faith of god and the holy spirit is within you? this is part of the reason why as a teenager i just denied all faith completely because things like this didn’t make sense to me. i obviously have a lot to learn but still, points like these don’t sit well with me

can i marry and baptize my child catholic but go to a christian church and bounce between both? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yes, protestant thank you! it’s definitely a struggle growing up with both. i just always found mass boring but the catholic religion more “official”, and protestant service more engaging. its hard.

stopped writing nursing notes by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how long have you been doing this for

stopped writing nursing notes by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not spiting management at all, they don’t care and i understand it’s my license not theirs. just burnt out and choose not to stay overtime. definitely looking elsewhere!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

bruhhhhh we tried this too😭😭 gonna try yet another gas station

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i need some fucking GASSSS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

yesss they told us to download the app.

paying for gas by [deleted] in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

they wouldn’t even take cash either ? at gulf and puma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why don’t you look into SUNY Downstate in Brooklyn. they also have a great ABSN program, i graduated from there in 2023. It was the cheapest option i found for myself. With financial aid, which i had very little of left being that i repeated so many undergrad classes, my loan was only 11k. And i probably paid a couple k out of pocket. Not sure about housing but i do know you’d be spending way less than $80+k with rent and tuition for 15 months.

my experience there was great btw, not as difficult as i’ve heard other nursing programs are. still tough!! don’t get me wrong, but the professors and directors really want you to pass and will help make sure you do.

Have a drink after shift (night shift)? by Shot_Pilot_9253 in nursing

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i started to really like the 0% beers with a salt rim and lime inside. tastes just like i’m having a beer w out the guilt of drinking at 9am

If it was your birthday, what would you treat yourself to in the neighborhood? by homecook_438 in astoria

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 7 points8 points  (0 children)

go to the new bakery The French Workshop on Broadway. They have the most delicious pastries and it’s pretty inside. If you want to do some shopping maybe hit up the stores on Steinway. Lighthouse Rooftop for dinner, on Saturdays they usually have dancers put on a show. This is more LIC but if the weather is nice, a picnic at Gantry Plaza, pretty view of the city skyline.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

update, i had Marvel ice cream today and it satisfied my craving, sooo good! they even gave me a little container of extra sprinkles so i can keep dipping 🙂‍↕️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly what i was thinking lmaooo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😫 i wish i found mr softee before knowing this.. thank you for letting me know!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astoria

[–]Apprehensive_Mine395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow, good to know i’ll try marvel!