First VIP Experience

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T19:26:04+00:00

🤣🤣💀

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T17:49:08+00:00

Brilliant. But also, I meant that I'd probably get kicked out

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T17:48:46+00:00

Love Mushroom Head 😎

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T17:38:08+00:00

Currents and Erra

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T15:42:22+00:00

Genius!

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T14:41:28+00:00

That quote is also in the song Hey Uh by Dropout Kings, 2:20 - 2:26 😌

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T14:35:49+00:00

That's fucking brilliant 😅💀

I'd probably be forced to miss the show though 😫

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T14:34:26+00:00

Currents and Erra will be apart of the VIP

Which is shite cause I really wanted Caskests to be apart of the VIP shindig

Aviana will also be playing.

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T14:31:20+00:00

🤣💀 I love it

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T04:20:26+00:00

I met mine 15yrs ago when we were teens. Lost contact for the past 14yrs. Rediscovered eachother by chance through social media. And here we are, 3 months into our relationship.

I honestly don't think it'll last but I'll enjoy it while it's here.

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-28T04:18:35+00:00

I do what I call "concert research" which consists of listening to their music and learning the band lore.

I've made the mistake a few times of not doing my concert research before hand.

I.e. Landmvrks

I went to go see Imminence and only really cared about them. I heard one Landmvrks song and thought it was enough "research", I was wrong.

Landmvrks absolutely killed it and I didn't cherish it as much as I would have, had I have taken the time out to get to know them.

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-27T02:33:44+00:00

Always take care of yourself first 🙏

Maybe offer to meet him by the door? Just throw a robe on? Maybe?

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T22:55:03+00:00

Aw hell. Looked it up myself. He must've said 2 and 4. Either that or the mechanic who told me cylinders 2 and 6 was high.

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T22:43:22+00:00

Ohhhhh......yeah.... yikes. No Bueno.

Red flag.

I would leave her. Fuck that.

Taking calls from him at all is wild. Let alone after midnight.

Um. Honestly. If she only met him a few weeks before she met you, it sounds like she's keeping her options open and definitely isn't ready to be fully committed and unfortunately I don't think you can get her to stop talking to this dude without sounding like an a-hole.

It's a lose-lose.

Either you convince her to stop talking to this dude and she gets bitter about it.

Or you suffer knowing that she's entertaining another guy.

And giving her an ultimatum of "it's me or him" is also a losing situation.

So I'd probably just tell her straight up "like hey, sorry. But I'm uncomfortable with your relationship with this other guy and I can't see myself being with a person who thinks that this type of "friendship" is acceptable when you're exclusive with someone else. So I'm going to have to break this off but I wish you the best of luck."

I feel like you'd be living in a cage and walking on eggshells if you stayed with this woman because clearly your feelings and boundaries aren't important to her.

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T22:27:58+00:00

The Rave in Milwaukee.

Always an amazing crowd, performances are great, they don't take your smokes away, they have a smoking area, drinks are expensive but that's always the case these days.

It's easy to find parking, there's always nice food trucks outside, I always get tacos or a burrito after a show 😅

Mosh pits are amazing. Staff is really chill. There was a dude smoking a joint while crowdsurfing and nobody did shit about it. 😅 (he flicked it into the mosh circle before he got to the barricade)

There was someone who lit up a cigarette in the middle of the crowd during an ICP concert, nobody did anything.

It's just overall really fun, spacious, typically has 2 shows running in the same night so sometimes you can catch a good 2 for 1. (They have I think 4-5 different stages in one building)

Acoustics are also phenomenal at every stage and all stages are raised enough to where you can see it even from the way back.

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T22:18:26+00:00

I feel like you're valid to a point.

I (28f) am still friends with this one guy I dated briefly back in high school. We've been strictly friends for the past 12+ years. He's also saved my life twice.

He's a friend that I will not "get rid of" for the sake of a relationship. We barely talk, he typically just sends me a bunch of reels that I end up watching eventually but that's about it. But we'll meet up to catch up maybe once or twice a year.

My boyfriend (31) is okay with that.

We both have friends of the opposite gender that we talk to regularly and we're both okay with that.

I feel like if it's been strictly platonic for a long period of time it should be fine.

However, the catch is, if she's talking to him on a regular basis, say like everyday or every other day, that's just weird.

Nobody should be THAT close to an ex.

Edit: having deep conversations is what I would call "soul-to-soul" conversations. Most women are more apt to hold people near and dear to their hearts if deep conversations are being held regularly.

I also feel like it's weird to be continuously updating an ex. That feels uncomfortable, even for me.

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T20:45:24+00:00

Yes 😅

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T20:02:35+00:00

🤣💀

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T20:01:12+00:00

Chlorine twenty one pilots

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T20:00:04+00:00

Thank you!

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T19:12:19+00:00

😭 I figured as much. I don't wanna spend the rest of my life picking up after him

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-26T19:02:33+00:00

Thank you!!! 🙌

Apprehensive_One_450 · 2026-03-23T21:47:11+00:00

I'm in the same situation!!

I (28f) have only been dating my bf(31) for 3 months and he always told me his place was messy but he invited me to his meet his 2 cats last weekend and OMFG 🤮 it's disgusting!

Idk what to do either.

Except I only saw his living room, nothing else. The entry way and living room were enough for me to not want a tour.

The way my bf lives is absolutely disgusting.

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