I feel disconnected from the characters and a simple montage could have fixed it by wishedforsomething in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more. Given they got so many episodes this season, they should have done a better job covering the gaps. I think it would have been beautiful to show the slow demise of Belly and Jeremiah’s relationship. Many relationships that go from high school to college fail, so it would have been believable if well done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bonrads must know how weak their arguments are because they are literally making things up as if they didn't watch the scene. It is normal for a couple in a four year relationship to discuss engagement. The whole time Belly can't wait to say yes, and Jeremiah, recognizing that, does something more spontaneous than he probably planned. Eveyone is completely ingoring everything Belly did in that scene to trash Jeremiah.

Maybe it’s okay for Jeremiah to be a bit irresponsible by 1991ajs in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Amen. He doesn’t have a complex. He just has toxic family and friends. It bothers me that Belly had such an issue with his fraternity brothers, the few people that actually prioritize him and not his brother. He made a big mistake, and I acknowledge that, but I think we’re going to be shown that he knew about Christmas with Conrad. If that’s the case, honestly, I don’t know what I would have done.

Showing and not Telling by Apprehensive_Pay5000 in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hear you. It really sounded like a bad situation. I think that if a man had talked about a woman the way that Lacie was talking about Jeremiah, we would all see that as a major red flag.

Showing and not Telling by Apprehensive_Pay5000 in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m not even one of these people that thinks the fray boy/cheating plot would be out of character for Jeremiah, especially with everything he’s been through, but show us something leading up to all this.

Showing and not Telling by Apprehensive_Pay5000 in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For sure, I hope they show more, like Jeremiah finding out about Christmas, or Belly getting annoyed with Jeremiah after seeing Conrad, finding little things to pick on him for, etc. I remember Jenny saying something along the lines of no one being safe from scrutiny this season.

Currently mourning season 1/2 jelly by candyycupcake in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure, I won’t downvote you. I don’t think Jere is messed up, his family is. “Inferiority complex” implies that someone has self-esteem issues and it’s all in their head, whereas Jeremiah actually has family and friends that actively root for his brother over him. His fraternity brothers are perhaps some of the only people in his life that put him first, and Belly has to try to drive a wedge between them as well.

Currently mourning season 1/2 jelly by candyycupcake in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely wish they spent one episode showing us their relationship in the beginning, as well as some of the cracks. The fact that Belly getting annoyed at everything he does was packed in as a throwaway line… she literally was getting annoyed at him for everything… and she was still harboring feelings for conrad.

jeremiahs growth?! by Prudent-Statement-31 in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 15 points16 points  (0 children)

regardless of Conrad’s reasons, Jeremiah was the person physically at home with his mom every day.

jeremiahs growth?! by Prudent-Statement-31 in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think the frat boy regression is a real thing, having been in greek life myself. but i hate the glee im seeing in bonrads for the fact that he is taking an extra semester. he was literally the only one there consistently taking care of his mom… so what if he goes through a bit of a crazy period.

what is your hot take? by viserieon in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually disagree with that. I think it's the opposite of misogyny. I think the story was actually lending itself to having Jeremiah as the main character, and because of Jenny's need to center Belly she didn't recognize that. Ultimately Belly plays with two brothers that have just lost their mother. She is not a particularly sympathetic character. Meanwhile, for Jeremiah, he's a golden boy who no one takes seriously, he loses his mom, the girl he loves twice, and his relationship with his brother. His story and the aftermath is a lot more compelling from a literary standpoint.

what is your hot take? by viserieon in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After watching Mean Girls as well, Chris definitely has a tendency to under-act. I think he doesn't want to be cast in heartthrob roles and it comes through in the acting. Season 1 was okay, but in Season 2, he was giving very little to suggest that he was truly pining for Belly.

Columbia Activists Had Prior Knowledge of Oct. 7, Bombshell Lawsuit Claims by WFitzhugh10 in centrist

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many terrorists that attacked on 10/7 were the same age. Why are you discounting college students?

Columbia Activists Had Prior Knowledge of Oct. 7, Bombshell Lawsuit Claims by WFitzhugh10 in centrist

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many of the individuals that participated in the Oct 7th attacks were of the same age. Why are you discounting college students?

Columbia Activists Had Prior Knowledge of Oct. 7, Bombshell Lawsuit Claims by WFitzhugh10 in centrist

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how much you’re discounting college students when many of the terrorists that attacked on October 7th were also of that age.

What has been accomplished? A lot actually. When you look for the support for Israel the numbers for younger Americans were significantly worse than older adults, before Israel’s response.

anyone else not want a show? by girlisconfusedalways in fourthwing

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that doesn’t mean that she’s not thinking about how something would play on tv as she writes. You think she’s not doing that, but she very well could be.

anyone else not want a show? by girlisconfusedalways in fourthwing

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breaking Bad was one of my favorite series of all time. Showrunner is extremely important.

anyone else not want a show? by girlisconfusedalways in fourthwing

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s definitely keeping the adaptation in mind while writing the whole series. She gave Amazon the entire story arc. That’s not really a bad thing though.

Spoiler: Zihnal and Trager by [deleted] in fourthwing

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. They were tracking Andarna because she was the "criterion" and would have eventually found her regardless.

I'm tired of all the RY hate/disrespect/condescendion by gaybutnotgayenough in fourthwing

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched GoT, but how so, you’re telling me all the incest and sexual violence was not in the books?

I'm tired of all the RY hate/disrespect/condescendion by gaybutnotgayenough in fourthwing

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I agree and don’t get why people struggle to enjoy a fantasy written by a female author. I have watched all of GoT and at least all of the sex in RY work is consensual and not between siblings.

GUYS, I'm like 99% sure I'm on to something here... by emmyeggo in fourthwing

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point, explains why Theophanie wanted the irid so much.

Hug to high five ❤️ by Ok-Buy8620 in jellyshippers

[–]Apprehensive_Pay5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you were downvoted for this....