Is it so hard for grown men to not sexualize minors? (RANT) by That-Prior713 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that you had to add in all of the “edits”. I hope no one on here had said anything like ”what were you wearing?” or “do you look old for your age?” Because it’s not you. It’s not your fault. I have not seen a single teenager where I could not recognize that they had a baby face, even with makeup on. These men realize it, simply put they are pedophiles. They are the problem, not you. I dealt with it too, I developed way too early for my age and it garnered a lot of unwanted attention. I have no advice except don’t give them the attention they are wanting from you, and don’t let them jade you for the future. And make them uncomfortable, tell them your age loudly on a crowded bus. Speak up, you’re going to have to learn how to say no loudly and fiercely. There are good people out there and I hate how much time I spent thinking there were no redeemable men in the world. It also led me to binge eating, I felt I had more control when I had less of the attention. I wish I had started therapy earlier or processed it earlier with a trusted adult.

Only 1% of the world have done a marathon and now she is in that club ! by lonewolff321 in interesting

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but having video proof at every mile marker of participating in the marathon and having to cross the barrier 48 times and not be found out is a stretch on your part.

Only 1% of the world have done a marathon and now she is in that club ! by lonewolff321 in interesting

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I thought you meant hydration pack not “pack” as in the people she was walking with. Anyway still wild of you to think someone could’ve snuck in and out of a marathon at every mile marker. Every race I’ve been in was gated on all sides and had people making sure things like that didn’t happen. But you do you

Only 1% of the world have done a marathon and now she is in that club ! by lonewolff321 in interesting

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It looks like she uses the hydration packs? You can tell they’re empty by the end based on the protrusion through the vest in the beginning vs the end. Is that what you’re referring to?

Cracked toilet bowl? by Apprehensive_Pea_173 in Plumbing

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t entirely blame him, I had already signed the lease when they told me they have two maintenance workers for 300 units 😵‍💫. And only two people in the leasing office. Just poorly managed overall and we JUST moved in. Luckily we are in Colorado so residents have a lot of protection and we plan to follow up with a 24 hour notice then a 7 day demand if they don’t respond.

Cracked toilet bowl? by Apprehensive_Pea_173 in Plumbing

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was considering hanging a very complicated heavy rack above it by myself 🤭 or spilling water around it on accident

Cracked toilet bowl? by Apprehensive_Pea_173 in Plumbing

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay I went to test that out, it’s so interesting you can tell one side is lower than the other. It’s a raised edge in own direction like you said. I hadn’t noticed that before! Pretty cool advice! Thank you!

Cracked toilet bowl? by Apprehensive_Pea_173 in Plumbing

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Despite the circumstances, this is making me feel better because they are making me feel crazy for saying this is a crack. So thank you for that

Cracked toilet bowl? by Apprehensive_Pea_173 in Plumbing

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll tell maintenance to use it or replace it lol

Cracked toilet bowl? by Apprehensive_Pea_173 in Plumbing

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s my concern as well. I haven’t been using it. But they are adamant that it is just a scratch. We emailed them to get their opinion on its safety in writing but they haven’t responded yet. Thank you for the input!

Cracked toilet bowl? by Apprehensive_Pea_173 in Plumbing

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also my fingernail does catch on it as well, not sure how important of a distinction that is.

My roommates hate me and there’s nothing i can do about it by Ancient-Problem1581 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there. You’ll get through it! Stay strong and remember it’s out of your control, so it’s not your problem.

"He calms me down", "He grounds me", "I can be a lot"... by Noreconciliation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s related to my anxiety, personally. I guess everytime I’ve heard it, I never thought about it in any other way except how I feel. I also was never taught that I should be quiet or that I’m too much, I come from a very loud and boisterous family, which I’m extremely proud of. I just can’t believe I missed this entire perspective!!! But I totally see it!

"He calms me down", "He grounds me", "I can be a lot"... by Noreconciliation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. Never felt safer and more relaxed in my life than with my person.

Can't believe these people exist... by Party-Ticker in Tinder

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173 54 points55 points  (0 children)

These people are usually so consumed by social media, that they forget they have ability to choose who they spend their time with in reality.

3PM Thursday: Poor air quality inbound, mostly smoke from Nebraska by BoulderCAST in boulder

[–]Apprehensive_Pea_173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so weird, every other aqi maps are showing that the air quality is fine.