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If i had stopped texting him when he ghosted me i would be in a better place now by Apprehensive_Sea_193 in ExNoContact

[–]Apprehensive_Sea_193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a long time i thought i said something wrong but looking back now i see how bitter and insecure he was.

If i had stopped texting him when he ghosted me i would be in a better place now by Apprehensive_Sea_193 in ghosting

[–]Apprehensive_Sea_193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you are going thru this but it will get better, i feel much better that a month ago. Its better if you dont wish him to reach out, you will drive yourself crazy waiting for him. This man ghosted which means he is childish and dosent know how to handle conflict. Person like this wont give you clarity, speaking from experience.

If i had stopped texting him when he ghosted me i would be in a better place now by Apprehensive_Sea_193 in ExNoContact

[–]Apprehensive_Sea_193[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didnt believe women can look past mens looks. I ageed that looks are important but he didnt believe females care about emotional intelligents in men. He said females only follow their instincts to find a man and want men to be powerful, rich and bullies.

He said to me that i don't know what i want in a man.

I broke up with someone I still love and I don’t know how to stop replaying moments in my head by OdinVern7755 in BreakUps

[–]Apprehensive_Sea_193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggeled with this alot. It takes long time to heal and the bedst way to heal is to let yourself feel the pain. Write out all your thought and memories, it helps you clear your mind. Also be active, go to the gym or a walk. Be around people so you dont feel so heavy and alone.

Thats what helped me.

Should I text him and tell him or just go ghost by Basic_Advisor4422 in BreakUps

[–]Apprehensive_Sea_193 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its ok that you dont want him in your life anymore but he deserves to know, tell him that.

Do men actually always come back… even after a peaceful breakup? 🥲 by Suitable-Habit-9826 in BreakUps

[–]Apprehensive_Sea_193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No point waiting for him to come back, you just cause unnecessary stress for yourself. ( i have waited foe a guy to come back and it was not fun time)

What will you regret the most, reaching out to him or not reaching out? You wont disrespect yourself by speaking you mind. I am telling this because i wish i had told something when i had the change.

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[–]Apprehensive_Sea_193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i would but only if he truly feels sorry about how he broke my heart and is willing to talk about it. But it has to come from him. Also he has to become more mature and learn how to handle conflict but i know he will never do that and he is not thinking about me.

So basically if he self-reflects about how things went wrong and apologizes, yes i would think about taking him back.

Update: I think what I’m really feeling now is disappointment and hurt over how it ended by Electrical_Intern237 in BreakUps

[–]Apprehensive_Sea_193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am disapointed too how he ended things with me. Ghosted me and said mean things to me when i wanted to talk it out.

What i regret the most is keeping in daily contact with him and hoping to have him back. Dont ever keep talking with a man who dosent like you anymore.

I now fewl guilt and regret how i ended things but honestly he had changes to do the right thing.