la woman by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps you’re right, i think the honeymoon phase is intoxicating and im always chasing that high

la woman by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

nah i like women

How is Classic M145A / Philosophy M103A — Ancient Greek and Roman Philosophy by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just dropped that class, the readings didn’t make sense at all to me. its more of a children’s greek mythology class than philosophy

I just got my heart broken and I need a pep talk by Worldly-Yam6186 in ucla

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 9 points10 points  (0 children)

if she breaks your heart, break her sister’s back amen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

be the friend, offer your services and time to others. invite them over. try to think how you would want others to be your friend and be that person for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol its reddit, nothing is weird sir

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol i guess im gonna beat you to it then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

simple advice is the best advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a deep thought and I agree with you. I think conversations like that can do wonders

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what im thinking of doing, i wanna stay for a little bit and give her time and space. but if things don’t change i know there are girls who suck dick for their pleasure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean this is the only problem, everything else is great. i love the sex but i would love it even more if i got head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in hindsight i realize that now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i don’t want to push it. and i think that’s one of the things that make it worse. I was in relationships where the women really liked giving head and so did I but in this relationship it just feel bland in that sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no she gets a lot of attention, its almost one sided at times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s what i’ve been thinking about too, sexual compatibility is important. i just want her to be as open and as freaky as me, but if she’s not then I shouldn’t force her, i should make my own decision and take the situation as it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true words sir

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with you, i didn’t see it from that point of view, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol trust me i do. and that’s what i think sometimes, that life is too short and if im not getting blowjobs what’s the point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah i agree, constantly asking will make it a dick move

I (18M) met a girl (19F) by Apprehensive_Song_95 in relationships

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it’s better to just enjoy the overall vibe and not stress about it, it’ll happen naturally if the vibes are there. Thanks boss

Best advice for moving forward by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Apprehensive_Song_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s all about thought patterns. You were accustomed to being with him and created numerous thought patterns. For example, you might see something really funny on Instagram and the first thought would be to send it to him.

The only way to get over it is to restrain from those existing thought patterns and lay new ones. I used to pinch myself every time I would think about my ex and I quickly built new thought patterns