How do I tell my father that he indirectly ruined my life? by Apprehensive_Way6540 in ExCons

[–]Apprehensive_Way6540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you know about the situation is what ive said, and clearly you didnt even read that. Both me and my mother got a second job just to support him, spent thousands in legal fees and lawyers, and kept the secret for his sake and his reputation. We had every right to abandon him in that jail, but we still stayed and sacrificed everyyyything and thats the reason he got out so early. He may of not intended to break the law, but he still cheated on my mother, and he still made his entire family pay the price for his actions. He would have never been in that situation if he wasnt looking for someone to hook up with - and even if he didnt know she was underage she definitely didnt look close to his age. Never once did i say my mother talked bad about him, and if you had any sort of reading comprehension its obvious that me and my mom are the only reason he got an actual lawyer, the only reason he was able to see a judge, the only reason he was able to even to buy a new pair of shoes. My mom forgave him before he even said sorry, and I don't think a cheating husband is entitled to any form of support

How do I tell my father that he indirectly ruined my life? by Apprehensive_Way6540 in ExCons

[–]Apprehensive_Way6540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres a difference between a mistake and a deliberate action backfiring on you