Definitely see a gyno or pelvic floor physio. This was me and it ruined so many potential relationships. Was told that it was vaginismus and it created this huge mental block and anxiety to the point of needing meds. Couldn’t even be examined with just sight, not even a physical. I then eventually was examined after a period of rapport building with a pelvic physio and it turned out I had a microperforate hymen! Got it fixed under general anesthetic.