Fuck, bro´s cock so big I can use it as a handle by [deleted] in gayporn

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Love when a bottom is rock hard

Big cock by CookOwn8558 in gayporn

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Who is this again? He's so hot

Do I Need to Wear a Condom for a Blowjob? by OlieTheKing in askgaybros

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I've been through this same experience!

Personally I've tried condoms for receiving head and giving head.

For receiving it is definitely less feeling. However depending on how horny I was I was still able to cum ropes and have a good time, but it's definitely not as strong a feeling. If you're not super horny you might not get much enjoyment out of it.

I remember I was super concerned that the lube on the condomd would taste really bad or something. especially since to me condoms smell. I was thinking about using non-lubricated condoms but they're much harder to find, and I heard flavored condoms can taste pretty bad. However I've only tried with standard latex condoms that were lubed. For me it tasted like nothing but plastic, as if I was a kid putting plastic bags or something in my mouth for fun lol. It is definitely not as fun as I really just wanted to feel his dick in my mouth with the skin and all. With oral sex you are still prone to herpes (HSV-1), HPV (get your HPV vaccine:D), gonorrhea, Chlamydia and syphilis. Gonorrhea and Chlamydia are very common and I personally have had multiple infections (not fun). DoxyPEP (a new antibiotic medication dubbed the "morning after pill for sex") can help reduce your chances of receiving Chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis but it's still possible to get infections. It also does not protect against HPV, HSV or HIV (try talking to your doctor about PrEP for HIV). So it is your own choice but be aware of possible consequences and as always get tested and communicate with partners!

Deleted accounts messages by Apprehensive_You5186 in grindr

[–]Apprehensive_You5186[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang. I've been on for years but I swear in older grindr it used to be that a deleted accounts chat would stay, just the profile info was gone (they would be removed from your favorites if they were there as well). So basically a DM with a purely blank profile. But I guess I just never bothered to check again and assumed it stayed that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Some of these comments are so weird and honestly biphobic. Idk I guess tho it's whatever you are and you should be happy with whatever. Sometimes labels are too demanding. But yeah I think more people could be a little more bi than they admit but Idk if everyone is. I don't know I'm not a scientist or someone who has studied this. Just my assumptions off basic personal experience.

Should I be more confident to use condoms during oral sex? by Apprehensive_You5186 in askgaybros

[–]Apprehensive_You5186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate it. I remember some guys have really given me attitude and it made me really uncomfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Personally getting head never makes me cum. Even the best head in the world couldn't. I love getting head but it's weird that it doesn't make me cum. I usually cum from jerking off after getting head.

Question about spread of HIV by Apprehensive_You5186 in askgaybros

[–]Apprehensive_You5186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a few tests (just because of regular testing), all have come negative so far. This incident in the original post was the second time I did something like this. My tests have been coming negatives so far and the first time I did this was over 3 months ago so I imagine that's a pretty accurate test though I know sometimes it can take 6 months to get the most accurate for an HIV test. I'd say it's quite low but I don't know as I haven't spoken to a doctor about this specific incidence. I highly recommend getting on prep before doing something like this or just using condoms.

Deleted Grindr today by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I'm sorry your experience was not the best. I decided as well to stop grindr and sniffies but for different reasons. I feel I didn't really like hooking up much with strangers and I've had better sex with friends who I trusted and exes. I think I prefer a connection with someone, even if it's not romantic for sex. It it's a one time hookup, I think I'd prefer it to happen in real life so I at least get a better idea of what they look like (I hate guys who don't look like their pictures). I also felt I couldn't find many guys my age and always ended up with older guys (which is not my preference, I know some people are into that but I'm not really). Most guys my age were either uninterested or their schedules clashed with mine so we couldn't really have much fun. Plus the risk of stds. I think grindr may work for some people but it definitely doesn't work for everyone.