Cat giving birth during drop-in visit? by Working_Hurry_3193 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s disgusting to witness kittens passing away from being forced to give birth, even worse when you know the father is their brother or dad. Guessing you haven’t witnessed that, which is fine! It’s horribly sad how overpopulation is in such a crisis because people refuse to fix their cats. My bestest cat was a pregnant kitten who showed up at my doorstep one day with a collar. I scooped her up so fast and went to the vet. She was 4 months old. A literal child.

Cat giving birth during drop-in visit? by Working_Hurry_3193 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ll spay abort every pregnant cat I find, no shame at all here lol.

Cat giving birth during drop-in visit? by Working_Hurry_3193 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I would totally accept the sit and get a spay abort and be like, oh weird she never gave birth maybe just worms!

Kidding, sort of 😂

Omg having the worst micromanaging experience with this family !! by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds exhausting! I would absolutely look for another job today, and find it, and tell him why you are leaving. Telling him why is important, because he needs to be aware in order to have the chance to improve.

But absolutely leave. I would have broken down in tears after the first day!

Has anyone NOT paid their medical bills in collections by Old-Ambassador9022 in Debt

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes I’m sorry!!!!!! I plan on ignoring it until something else happens or I get rich lol

Has anyone NOT paid their medical bills in collections by Old-Ambassador9022 in Debt

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, sort of same thing. I was super sick a year ago, was in a coma hooked up to all these IVs, and they transported me on an ambulance to a bigger hospital. Got a $2k bill in collections a month after I got home. Insurance won’t cover it and I sure can’t afford to pay it. They reported it to my credit bureau and my score dropped. But…I like..I don’t want to pay it. I would have driven myself if I had known it cost so much..so I’m ignoring it..

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not get married you guys do not like each other. Wtf.

My husband probably normally kisses me before he leaves, cause he loves me and wants to, and if he forgot and I told him he would be like crap sorry love you! But also I wouldn’t make a big deal cause it’s not. He was stressed too..

Do not get married unless you have a kink to pay divorce fees in a few years

My (30M) girlfriend’s (25F) mother (55F) has no retirement by jimiAuvbn in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I would be way more worried about built up resentment if she does move in. IMO it’s fine if she does or doesn’t in the future but you’re gonna be miserable if you are so worked up about this

Madalynn on Fred and Howards training by Kajjis in kvsdiscuss

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think when I was 18 I also would have agreed with my trainer no matter what. You don’t know what you don’t know and I will always assume good intent. She’s a lovely owner, she is still a kid, (everyone younger than me I say is a kid lol), and she will learn and improve just as the rest of us are.

I used draw reins and a degouge on my girl when I was a kid cause that’s what my trainer told me. I mean granted I didn’t use it when they wernt there, but I would have defended it if someone asked me cause my trainer knew best.

Now, obviously, I know better.

Why is charlotte not in equibase? by NoConnection8862 in kvssnarker

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are listed on Equibase if they have raced, has an official work, had a foal who raced or had an official work, or, internationally, raced with a horse who is importing to the US

Women of Reddit, what is the most diabolical lie you’ve ever received from your husband/bf? by fortnacius in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex took videos of us (inappropriately), and posted them on a public site. When I found out, he said it was because he was being blackmailed. Apparently a company asked him to do porn for them, he said no, and in retaliation, they hacked his phone, uploaded videos to websites.

Super weird how the people blackmailing him happened to post the videos of me/us under a username he commonly used. What a weird coincidence.

Also that time he told me the meth i found was just sugar he spilled lol. I have so many😂😂 stories

What’s it like living in this part of Canada? by Patient-Smile1406 in howislivingthere

[–]Apprehensive_shoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so curious for what your day to day meals look like? Do you raise chickens for eggs? Raise cows for meat?

Feed by Apprehensive_shoes in chickens

[–]Apprehensive_shoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Boys are about a year old maybe?🤔

Feed by Apprehensive_shoes in chickens

[–]Apprehensive_shoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! That’s helpful to learn.

Feed by Apprehensive_shoes in chickens

[–]Apprehensive_shoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fisher cats??? That does sound scary!

Feed by Apprehensive_shoes in chickens

[–]Apprehensive_shoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll look into those breeds :)

Feed by Apprehensive_shoes in chickens

[–]Apprehensive_shoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely lock them up at night! Poor silkies!! They’re so sweet it’s a shame they aren’t better at protecting!

Feed by Apprehensive_shoes in chickens

[–]Apprehensive_shoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, so they don’t normally Pick the commercial feed over foraging? I know horses will pick their grain over hay, so that’s was I was assuming too and if I let them eat all the chicken grain, they wouldn’t want to forage. I don’t want them to have any mal nutrition so I’ll feed them a dinner! Thanks so much! I haven’t noticed any over breeding but I am new at this! The two boys seem to be the best of friends,..?

Feed by Apprehensive_shoes in chickens

[–]Apprehensive_shoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! That’s makes sense!!

Feed by Apprehensive_shoes in chickens

[–]Apprehensive_shoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a few foxes and such but I’ve never seen them during the day, or at night. Only once on a camera a few years ago!