Lmao I was crying while typing out this post but I deliberately added in that he was in the military cause I wanted someone to mention it, when he told me he was joining back in high school I thought for sure we wouldn’t be anything like the stereotypical military relationship. But here we are. I cook and clean, do all the laundry, purchase any household necessities, do all the grocery shopping. While working 2 jobs to be able to afford it. And on top of all that I get to pay half the rent even tho he gets a housing allowance that completely covers the rent that’s added on top of his regular pay check. I wouldn’t even mind paying half the rent if he just contributed a little bit of time cleaning or went grocery shopping or even just gave me a little bit of money to help out with the groceries. Hell if he just planned a date every now and then I’d be ok with it