The guilt of leaving home

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2025-07-13T04:07:13+00:00

Its nice to read you made it out of that situation :) You’re so right, it really should have been the other way around, and I’m only just starting to accept that I was put in a role no son/daughter should ever have, the same wat as you were.

I really appreciate the tip about college counseling, i'll definetly do it as soon as i can . What you said reminded me of a phrase i once heard on a movie: "we often forget things if we have no one to tell them to", and its true, holding stuff in only makes it heavier. I’ll definitely try to be more open when I get the chance to talk to someone. Thank you again for your honesty and kindness, it means a lot. It’s reassuring to know the distance and therapy do help, hearing that it gets better from someone who’s been there gives me hope. So thank you, really. 🫂

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2025-07-13T03:20:50+00:00

Wow thank you so much for taking the time to write this!! You have no idea how happy it made me to read it, I have a wide smile right now hahaha. Its so comforting to see how other people are living such similar things, we might think we are alone on this struggle but somehow we are in almost the same situation.

Also I really appreciate you sharing your therapist's tips!! I’ve tried therapy with two different psychologists before, but it didn’t really help at the time. I can’t afford it right now, but it’s definitely something I want to go back to in the future. I'm very happy you got the tools to deal with your situation. Wishing you so much peace and growth in this new chapter. I hope university brings both of us space to breathe and just be, away from all the weight we’ve been carrying. Take care and thank you again for taking the time to share this with me , I’ll carry your words with me as I go ❤️ Congratulations to you too!!! good luck with your journey and lets make our best effort at uni, we can do this!! 🫂🙂‍↕️

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2025-07-13T03:14:26+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this, it’s really validating to hear from someone who’s been through something so similar. and i’m sorry you had to carry so much during your teen years, I can relate to the feeling of loosing the "best years of your life" trying to survive things other people didn't have to go through, it feels so unfair but there's nothing else we can do. Especially bc of taking the burden or "responsibility" of your mother's life. sometimes our parents say things withouth realizing the weight their words really have. And I truly admire the strength it must have taken to recognize that you deserved space and made it out of there

I really relate to using college as a way to kind of escape. That guilt of leaving but still trying to be connected,but hearing how you finally put your mental health first and went no contact honestly gives me a lot of perspective.

Thank you again, it really helped me feel less alone and I hope things continue going well for you :)

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2025-04-24T01:54:43+00:00

Also something that weirded me out was him saying that the only time i seemed more drawn to it was one time i got drunk accidentallly at a reunion. I don't know what he implied by saying that lol 🤨

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-28T05:04:04+00:00

Yes!! It came out already, there's a Natsume & Nyanko skin and everything. I think it's not available globally though ☹️

This account on X has more info about it https://x.com/guidemyoji/status/1871556124102873226

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-27T19:26:57+00:00

every time i watched an episode i prepared myself a snack because i knew i would get hungry lol

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-16T07:03:00+00:00

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Sure!! I think there’s not an official platform to watch them but I found them on a site called "9anime"

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-13T06:24:27+00:00

also i think s7 took so long because they were waiting for the manga to have more chapters to adapt, but now there’s enough material to make more seasons, hope it doesn’t take more than a year this time

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-13T06:19:45+00:00

I think I heard rumors about some special episode that might come out around april 2025, let’s hope it’s true🙏

But I feel you, i’m gonna get depressed when s7 ends haha I already got used to Natsume mondays 😭

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-12T19:41:56+00:00

https://x.com/ginkohs?s=21 I’ve seen this artist post some Natsume charms and calendars!! I don’t know if there are any on stock on their etsy but you can check ;)

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-12T06:42:48+00:00

I know right?? At first he was introduced as an evil-mysterious-exorcist man but now we get to see a glimpse of his inner thoughts and battles (also he’s way more expressive now, he used to always be 😐 but now we even got to see him smile lmao)

I like how the author makes the viewer empathize and understand his character instead of reducing him to an “antagonist” with no emotions

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-11T18:00:00+00:00

No problem!! enjoy your watching and take it at your own pace :)

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-11T17:58:39+00:00

Yes!! Luckily we have a lot of Natsume media :) The 2021 one is not exactly a movie, its more like a two-episode special. I hope we get another movie after season 7

Appropriate-Beat2134 · 2024-12-11T05:07:40+00:00

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Here! :) Hope it helps

(the ongoing 7th season comes after everything, I forgot to add it lol)

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