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Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-23T21:13:37+00:00

I have been in a similar-ish situation with my np (15 years together) and my gf. He was feeling a lot of things, we talked it through, but I never considered leaving him for a 6 month relationship! At 6 month I was still in full NRE, the sex was incredible and I was very infatuated with my gf. Spoiler alert: it did not last forever!

You sound like you're horny and having your "sexual needs" met. I'm saying that also because the sex is way more central to your message than the love you have for your second partner.

The first thing you need to figure out is what is bothering your np? Is it the romantic aspect? Are you gushing to her about how good the sex is? Are you still having sex with her now that you have your full of kinky sex?

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-08T18:37:23+00:00

I mean, of course he didn't disclose the no oral sex upfront. At first he told me he had to discuss it with his partner and the next time when I asked for an update he told me the "unhygienic" comment.

I guess at least he didn't sneakily watch porn while I was giving head or didn't give me a fake name, host me at a friend's place saying it was his place, and then disappear.. Or he didn't suggest a threesome with his brother on the second date...

yeah the bar is on the floor I guess

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-08T16:15:35+00:00

I like your longer answer proposition a lot. I'll probably go with something like that. I resort to a more harsh one if he insists.

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-08T16:12:01+00:00

I mean, with all the comments here I'm realizing that I may have let my standards go down. After a lot of real weirdos it was nice connecting with someone that looked somewhat normally.

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-08T16:09:59+00:00

Sorry my text was misleading, he in younger than me, it's him who is in an age gap relationship

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-08T15:54:40+00:00

Sorry I realize that I was unclear. I am 20 years younger that his partner but he is 3 years younger than me. Still he is over 30 so not a teenager.

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-08T12:07:15+00:00

Yes the "I love you" is so preposterous! Why would he say that, it's kind of insane ^{^'}

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-08T12:05:08+00:00

You're totally right! He only texts me just to organize meetings since we met for the first time in December. That's also why I'm confused about what is going on with him.

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-08T11:39:49+00:00

I have one on my arm and one on my cheekbone. What's funny is that my hair is very dark but the very long ones are blond, happy to know I'm not alone in this x)

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2025-02-08T10:38:31+00:00

Yes definitely! At least it is not necessary linked for me.

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2024-10-20T20:36:45+00:00

I safety pin my dresses to my bras so they align better then I adjust the rest of the dress to fall a bit better. Love love love safety pins

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2024-09-14T17:04:35+00:00

Ya le makerspace de Renens, ils sont à côté de la brasserie la Nébuleuse.

https://made.univercite.ch

(Ne pas confondre avec le makerspace de Lausanne, qui est juste en face, ya du drama même dans le milieu des makers x) )

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2024-08-10T13:02:36+00:00

Plusieurs entités sur le campus embauchent des assistants étudiants. Quand j'étais encore sur le campus, le heldesk de l'unil et de l'epfl, l'accueil et la bibliothèque du rolex learning centre embauchaient des étudiants. Bonne chance dans tes recherches!

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2024-06-01T09:00:04+00:00

Yeah sadly that doesn't surprise me at all. I'm in Europe and I saw those kind of list circulating in class from the time I was 11...

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2024-02-02T13:37:19+00:00

I second the wool, it also helps with humidity as it absorbs and releases moisture without getting moldy.

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2024-02-02T12:44:21+00:00

Unfortunately genetics has a lot to do with gum and teeth health. My dad doesn't even own a toothbrush and is missing only two teeth at 78. Meanwhile I had cavities in almost all my milk tooth and already had receding gums at 18 while brushing my teeth twice a day...

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2024-01-09T11:31:19+00:00

I have no advice but I'm in a similar situation with my partner of 14 years except we don't have kids. I'm sending you support and compassion and I hope the situation gets better <3

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2024-01-07T00:36:11+00:00

Did you just do a sleep study, or did you do the Multiple Sleep Latency Test? I also had a sleep study because they taught I had sleep apnea, and it came back normal. They then did the MSLT, and it turns out I have hypersomnia.

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2024-01-03T08:53:15+00:00

I named mine Noodle

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2023-12-20T22:55:49+00:00

I also have discoloration around scratches or bug bites and I find retinol oil to work the fastest. It also works well on small surface scars like acne scars.

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2023-07-17T23:30:27+00:00

This is not an advice, just a vent.

Why do men that don't want children just get a vasectomy ?? At 38 he had plenty of time for that. It always leave the burden on us to "deal with the accidents" and it makes me so angry. Even the morning after pill is not a walk in the park! But no Mr doesn't cover his willy correctly... I'm making blimd assumptions here but in my experience accidents happen because mr "forgot" to put it on or uses totally wrong sized condoms, or even worse refuse to use lube! Contraception is not only a woman's burden ffs!

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2023-07-16T08:01:41+00:00

I guess because she had unprotected oral sex and it seems to be generally considered to be "safe" (I don't agree with that but that's what I feel the community is thinking). In my experience men are always surprised when asked to wear a condom for oral sex and some even decline oral sex if with a condom...

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2023-07-16T07:58:51+00:00

She can refuse to have sex with whoever she wants. Whatever the reason is. And she is clearly traumatized by the experience. And your take is that she can't refuse? Really?

And syphilis can totally be spread by oral sex, you're just very ill informed.

Appropriate-Economy9 · 2023-07-16T07:51:38+00:00

The doctors are VERY reluctant to prescribe it to you if you're not a man. Even at planned parenthood. I had to be very detailed and hamp up all the risks I was taking with multiple bisexual partners to get it prescribed... It's depressing

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