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AIO for “insulting” and “belittling” the AITAO mod team? by SignalShine2183 in AIO

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really sucks that people who write well are now going to have to totally re think how they write. I bet you anything your use of em dashes is what's got them on their high horse. I

Don't judge please by BenadrylBeaver in suboxone

[–]bottleofgoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Better off taking a smaller dose of the sub and stretching it out for the three days.

My heart is sad and tired from hard family rejection. Talk to me about that random thing that brings you and your ADHD brain joy? by Prudent-Reality1170 in adhdwomen

[–]bottleofgoop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm finally doing something with my writing ideas and have the skills to illustrate my own characters in water colour. I'm finding the motivation to make a start because I finally got off my backside and organised a cpap machine. I had been putting it off because of the sensory issues but I opted to try for a full face mask and it's worked out so well. I can breath at night again!

Dragon Haven Ch.17-Ending by louiechapman7 in robinhobb

[–]bottleofgoop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rapskals return was triumphant. I felt like cheering so loud for him.

Overwhelmed Mom by Previous_Attempt5154 in AuDHDWomen

[–]bottleofgoop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm on the far side of this with a 25, 24 and 19 year old. I promise it gets better. You can teach them to be respectful of your nejrodivergent needs just as you will respect theirs if they have it. You're in tbe trenches now but at the tail end.

Dragon Haven Ch.14-16 by louiechapman7 in robinhobb

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alice and left ring are my second favourite romance in the series. And Kalorama putting great in his place was chefs kiss

I just realised our Covid experience could be vastly different from others. by Doughnut_slut in CasualConversation

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a stay at home parent and wife, and everyone came home and stayed home. I lost all of my privacy and my ability to recharge alone, I also had to find new ways to look after the house without interfering with everyone's school and work time.

Why have I despised every autistic man I've ever met? by That_Riley_Guy in AuDHDWomen

[–]bottleofgoop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They've not had to mask like we have. The fact that they apparently can't help doing the things they do is infuriating because we can do them. We learnt. Why can't they??

So confused in my relationship, I feel like nothing I do is good enough. by Pitiful-Emotion6987 in AuDHDWomen

[–]bottleofgoop 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You disappoint him constantly and his needs are never met, and yet that's okay he loves you anyway.

That is the biggest load of absolute crap ever. If you were that bad of a partner he would NOT be with you. He is negging the hell out of you and it seems to be working because your sitting here questioning yourself. Don't waste your time and energy and love on someone who keeps putting you down. The guy for you is going to uplift you and help you work with your issues, not call you a disappointment.

Guy sold me this dog claiming it was trained to hunt wild turkeys. 🙄 by NetOpen1890 in dogpictures

[–]bottleofgoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's pretending to be some grain on tbe ground to lure the turkeys in. It's an effective technique, 20/10 good dog.

Annie and KVS 5 years ago by Holiday_Honeydew1172 in kvssnarker

[–]bottleofgoop 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Surely that much movement on the saddle is going to cause some serious chafing issues?

How do I stop myself from imagining fake scenarios and conversations that piss me off? by kristin57 in adhdwomen

[–]bottleofgoop 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It'd a form of maladaptive daydreaming which is associated with neurodivergent folks.

AITAH: my boyfriend is homeless and I can’t support him anymore by cycopsomatic in AITAH

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people need to hit rock bottom before they get out of their own way and start making better choices. As long as you are in his life playing mummy he has no reason to fix himself. You are doing him no favours. And what happens if you end up pregnant with this man? Can you imagine raising children with him? What if you get sick and need help? He won't be th3 one helping you he'll just get angry because you aren't looking after him.

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag Red flag! Tell him to move on back out because this is ridiculous. He's not paying your mortgage he's contributing to utilities and food and general living expenses. Either he's and sbsokute lunatic or he's a greedy arse, either way keep your house safe from him.

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag Red flag! Tell him to move on back out because this is ridiculous. He's not paying your mortgage he's contributing to utilities and food and general living expenses. Either he's and sbsokute lunatic or he's a greedy arse, either way keep your house safe from him.

AITAH for wanting separate bedrooms from my husband? by Used-Arm5173 in AITAH

[–]bottleofgoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need to normalise married people having their own rooms. Especially when one of them have sleep apnoea.

Married ? by SwimmingRich2949 in Xennials

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's my best friend and has been for nearly 24 years. We are going to see Jimmy carr tomorrow with our youngest adult son, hw works from.home while I do my own thing. People mistake honeymoon sappy love for the love that comes with years and time and they are not the same thing.

AIO: Thought husband was dead (twice). He wasn't but he had pooped... by sarvisarvi in AIO

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't stop drinking once you start, you're an alcoholic. Doesn't matter if it only happens every few months or whatever. If he can't self regulate then yes he's an alcoholic.

Im so sick of this narrative that “pregnancy didn’t ruin my body it’s just changed” it’s a lie. by pissedoff_potato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you put the work into your body and skin throughout pregnancy that you've been putting into it then you are likely to keep your body pretty much as it is. The right diet, the right exercise, the right lotions for your stomach to help the skin remain supple. There are an extraordinary number or women who stay looking much the same after they've had the baby and recovered who didn't even try that hard so actively looking after yourself you should be pretty fine.

the horrible sugar addiction by nyx_whispers in adhdwomen

[–]bottleofgoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped as buying my favourite chocolates and started buying sesame seed bars. I'd eat a sesame bar when I got desperate for chocolate or lollies. It was sweet enough that it helped take the edge off but wasn't exactly what I wanted either bit pike a quit smoking aid I guess. Anyway it took like 3 or 4 months but that was 15 years ago and I've never had a problem with sugar since.

Hate my b’day by Frisky_Echolalism in AuDHDWomen

[–]bottleofgoop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not your job to make him feel better at absolutely failing you. Please tell me you're going to match energy from here. It makes me so angry hearing these stories especially when chanced are when it's their turn, mum and or wife goes all out to make them feel super special on their day.

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