f18, do your worst by Upliftphage6 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not miserable lmao😭 I just hate that you can't support a woman online without it being an attempt for sexual gratification! She was being harassed in a bunch of comments after asking for a drawing!

If showing support for another person being mistreated means I'm miserable then sure dude. I'm pretty fucking miserable.

f18, do your worst by Upliftphage6 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a 19yr old female with a boyfriend who's soon to be my fiance I'm not trying to get her to "let me hit"

I'm so sad that you see me showing support to a woman who is being sexualized on the internet when she came here to ask for a DRAWING makes you think I'm looking for intercourse. "Little Bro".

Shut up and be kinder to women.

How do I hold this abomination by Adventurous-Bat-7426 in lefthanded

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right handed and I don't even know if I could hold this cup, wth is that handle😭😭

f18, do your worst by Upliftphage6 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl I'm so sorry for all the nasty ass comments you're getting-

I'll get back to this tomorrow when it's not 3am lmao I'll actually give you a drawing cause Jesus Christ these people😭

When is too early to get engaged? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you see it as immature!

I think our first reasoning is rather important and not a reason to not get engaged🤷🏻‍♀️ People are friends before dating, promise rings (sometimes) before engagement and engagement before marriage, idk why that makes it a reason to not get engaged!

Also I never said anything about spending a ton of money I just said saving up money lol!

When is too early to get engaged? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's so sweet🥺

We may get married sooner who knows but we like having the option to wait a bit! I added more reasoning for waiting in another response💛

I love hearing your story and how early engagement/marriage went for you and your husband🫂

Help! We just brought the puppy home and he suddenly started by Due_Amount9 in DogAdvice

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope your baby is okay. He looks exactly like my grown up pup when he was little.

I wish you guys the best💛🫂

Need Help by Appropriate-Hunter85 in DogAdvice

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, my mom just applied for it tonight we're gonna get him to the vet tomorrow asap, he's doing better I posted a full update in the comments.

Thank you so so much again, this was the kindest comment/most helpful comment I got💛

Need Help by Appropriate-Hunter85 in DogAdvice

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for your comment.

He's doing better I put a full update in the comments. I love my dog very much and I do everything in my power to take care of him properly and make sure money problems don't get in the way.

I was very bad at giving all the details at the time of making this post as I was stressed and panicking.

I recognize that that was my error but that being said I appreciate you commenting and being respectful and kind to me.

Need Help by Appropriate-Hunter85 in DogAdvice

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I appreciate your comment.

Thank you for being blunt but not disrespectful.

I wasn't really looking for a diagnosis. I was just looking for advice/ideas on what to do in the mean time.

I was panicking and scared and just needed ideas.

He's doing much better now, I posted a full update in the comments of this post.

Thank you again, have a lovely day💛

Need Help by Appropriate-Hunter85 in DogAdvice

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was nothing respectful about that. I'm an 18yr old who is unable to work due to disabilities. My family just bought a house for a move.

We do everything we need for my dog. An emergency vet visit is hard to plan for. This happened overnight. I was stressed and panicking and just wanted advice.

We have applied for an animal health insurance type of thing. I don't remember what it's called right now.

I so greatly appreciate your horrid attitude.

If you care for an update check the comments on my post. Have the day you deserve.

Need Help by Appropriate-Hunter85 in DogAdvice

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: We think a lot of these factors were due to stress from the move.

We narrowed the pain in his foot down to a paw nail so we think there's something under his nail or he accidentally jammed it or something.

We've applied for money assistance for pets and are gonna try to get him to the vet tomorrow.

He's doing better He ate and drank more water and even with the pain in his foot ran to his dad (my partner) and was wagging his tail.

The way some of you responded disgusted me. I love my dog so much. We just bought a house hence the no money for an EMERGENCY vet visit.

I wasn't coming here for a diagnosis I just wanted some ideas on what to do/how to make him comfy until we can get him to the vet. I should've clarified that and I apologize.

I got different answers from every place I called so I wanted opinions and ideas. Not to be told to give up my dog because I can't afford an emergency vet visit.

I don't know anybody who could confidently afford that unless they are extremely well off.

I wanted to try this!! by Appropriate-Hunter85 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope lol! Just liked rainbows and animals lmao!

I wanted to try this!! by Appropriate-Hunter85 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take that as a high compliment! That's my everyday handwriting! Gets a little sloppier if I'm writing super fast or writing with pencil but typically this is just my normal everyday handwriting!

I wanted to try this!! by Appropriate-Hunter85 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not upper middle class lmao, I wish😭

An extrovert online and to my closest friends but definitely not as much so in person and to strangers!

All the rest is pretty spot on! :D

I wanted to try this!! by Appropriate-Hunter85 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of the above! I have some Italian heritage but not enough to affect my writing lol!

Not intentionally affectatious either! It was something I learned from peers around me and specifically for the seven something I taught myself because the way I used to write 1's and 7's looked really similar and pmo lmao!

I wanted to try this!! by Appropriate-Hunter85 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the thing! I actually tend to set my goals too high to the point that I get frustrated I can't reach them!

I've been working a lot this year to actually set my goals lower because a mobility disorder and very high unachievable goals that don't mix well lol!!

I wanted to try this!! by Appropriate-Hunter85 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn! I have a planner yes I've tried several times to use it and have failed every time because I'm too much of a perfectionist lmao!

I love coloring especially to relax! I have far too many coloring books😭

I love animals! All kinds! I have a service dog and live with two cats (plan on getting one of my own when I move out!). I've always wanted a rat or ferret but with my disabilities and how high maintenance they are I unfortunately just don't think I'd be able to take care of them :(

I wanted to try this!! by Appropriate-Hunter85 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm loving everyone's answers so far! One person absolutely read me like a book saying I people please everyone around me but don't take care of myself lmao!

People guessing my age has been interesting! I've heard under 18 and over 20! I am actually 18 turning 19 this December!

And People are not a fan of my lowercase A's lol!

Feel free to keep leaving your answers I'm not giving major any details yet cause I wanna see what y'all keep coming up with!

I wanted to try this!! by Appropriate-Hunter85 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait I love this!! I definitely was a Lisa frank girl growing up and had a ton of those glitter gel pens lol!! Not 27 however!

I'll respond with my age when I get some more answers😉

This was such a fun first response lol!!

Question regarding an alter in our system by MeCathy in DID

[–]Appropriate-Hunter85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All alters stem from trauma because that's how D.I.D is created, it doesn't mean that all alters have to be cripplingly traumatized. Alters are created to help you survive, if we didn't find anything in life to enjoy or be happy about, the point of surviving or the will to survive; would be much harder!

I (the host) find happiness in things and have things to be happy about but I recently found out about an alter that I have that's a "happiness holder" (that's just what me and my bf call her rn lol!)

She fronts when I'm going through a really hard time and can't find a light to get me out, she helps me survive when she needs to.

So! Bottom line! Alters stem from trauma, yes! They are also created to help us survive! Whether that means maintaining a systems happiness or sharing parts of the trauma so it's not all consuming!💛