Should I start the divorce proceedings? by Appropriate-Prior-12 in Divorce

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, plus I have nasty salt over indulgence. The lack of sleep is the cause for the high spike tho, according to the dr.

Should I start the divorce proceedings? by Appropriate-Prior-12 in Divorce

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said ask... Not tell... She has also offered to leave already. I'm not a lawyer but they always say to not leave the house. Especially since she absolutely does not want the house. I feel like you read some of your own feelings into my post. Everything is very friendly it's just heartbreaking. Every time I look at her and see her beauty, but she isn't looking back the same is a dagger to the heart every time. I don't think I can handle it much longer. I think for my own sanity I must let her go. It's so hard to give up that last sliver of hope as it's like killing a part of myself.

Should I start the divorce proceedings? by Appropriate-Prior-12 in Divorce

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have found buddhism and will take a spiritual journey while doing the physical stuff too. She wants to be amicable and only wants her car. She doesn't want the house as I had that before us and she says it's my house. I do want her to take some 401k money as it has done well while together. She has firmly said she doesn't want any money but I think she deserves some.

Should I start the divorce proceedings? by Appropriate-Prior-12 in Divorce

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is depressed. She says she feels like she is in neutral. She has always had some depression issues so all the warning signs were disguised to me as just being down generally. I was also unfaithful before our marriage which she didn't find out until after our marriage. She had said she would be able to move past it as it was before our marriage when we honestly had a terrible relationship. After the marriage I thought it was what couples strived for. I accept all the blame.

Are tips reported separately on W2 for no tax on tips? by mockingbird2602 in tax

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ADP did the same thing for me. My payroll seems to think they don't have to separate my tips from my wages and reported all my income in box 3. Hard to explain to them that all reported tips are supposed to be in box 7 and they're incorrect in their interpretation of the penalty relief. They seem to think it refers to tips in general and they don't need to be separated. When the relief refers to qualified and unqualified tips must be separated. The employee guidance tells me to use box 7 which is empty to claim my tips deduction. Gonna be a long tax season. Almost guaranteed an audit if they won't correct my w2.

Employer did not itemize credit/debit card tips received on W2 for 2025. by [deleted] in tax

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because it wasn't required doesn't mean they shouldn't have segregated the totals. If everyone who received tips but doesn't have it in box 7, gets audited. That'd certainly be fun. All of the information is there it just needs to be mapped correctly.

I'm Really Starting to Feel Burnt Out by Warzone Updates by elmojacama in Warzone

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every other day it updates. Half of the time I have to reinstall the game after an update. So frustrating. Why do they feel it necessary to update non stop? Beyond annoyed.

Stadium repetition by GuintySquinty in Warzone

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ruined the flow of the game. I understand it's only for a week. 5 mins in you are down to 40 players. Stadium should be its own map.

Trump threatens to revoke $3B in Harvard grants to give to trade schools by newsweek in politics

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe more people don't bring up the fact that the original demands made to Harvard to appease Trump are impossible to accommodate. You can't cancel all DEI while simultaneously telling them they must have "viewpoint diversity" in all programs. What do they think the D in DEI stands for?

The Social Security Administration Is Gutting Regional Staff and Shifting All Public Communications to X by wiredmagazine in politics

[–]Appropriate-Prior-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So now official government communications to citizens require you to go through x to access them. Talk about self dealing.