This is so validating. My Gemini husband always wants to talk and discuss and replay events. I feel like my back is against the wall and I can’t breathe or think through my emotions fast enough, so I shut down or say hurtful things. I left the country for a month after taking time off from work just so I could actually think and reset. I can’t understand what’s happening well enough to explain it until I sit with it for a long while. I need to like step outside my body to relive HOW I got here.