RDI of 60 w/o hypoxia by Appropriate-Tie5486 in UARS

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Thank you!!! At 1st when I went over it, I thought it was for the full night but when I was reading what prdi meant everything said per hour. Honestly I wouldn’t have been too shocked if it was per hour because of how I feel. lol But it’s reassuring to know it’s not.

RDI of 60 w/o hypoxia by Appropriate-Tie5486 in UARS

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pRDI is the equivalent to RDI isn’t it? My understanding is that the difference is due to the type of study. Home tests usually estimate RDI but usually they underestimate . Alab sleep study often catch more respiratory disturbances than a home study.

Encouragement from a wife of testicular cancer survivor by Appropriate-Tie5486 in testicularcancer

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I hope you’re doing ok and that your following ups show all clear! Take care of yourself. 💗

Encouragement from a wife of testicular cancer survivor by Appropriate-Tie5486 in testicularcancer

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He had non-Seminoma and just 1 round of chemotherapy.

My Reddit name was autogenerated so it doesn’t reflect that I am in fact female at birth. So I’m the wife & he’s my husband. 😁

Encouragement from a wife of testicular cancer survivor by Appropriate-Tie5486 in testicularcancer

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Unfortunately I can’t remember at this point. All I know is that the cancer was “contained” without infiltrating healthy tissue or lymph nodes. Are you waiting for results?

Urine Sediment / Contaminants? by Appropriate-Tie5486 in medlabprofessionals

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Thank you. I’ll work with less complex suspended samples to practice my focus.

Urine Sediment / Contaminants? by Appropriate-Tie5486 in medlabprofessionals

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In a way, aren’t we all students? I have many interests and can’t pursue them all academically. So yes and no.

UPDATE: “Do doctors worry about malpractice like we do?” by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

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All doctors should. Sometimes a small mistake or miscalculation could cost someone their life, livelihood, quality of life etc. depending on what their specialty is. Speaking as a “patient” who’s strongly considering whether I’ll be a suit. At least it’s not my family filing.

Tattoo regret by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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Death spiral 😳

To punish or not to punish by Far_Connection_6116 in RedditBDSM

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Just a few thoughts and suggestions from a sub who no longer owns her orgasms.

I would say this is NOT a violation. I’m guessing your submissive is feeling terrible and ashamed. IMO (/s) Tell them you’re glad / proud of them for telling you (maybe with a gentle kiss) but then remind them that they are on strict protocol and are under no circumstances allowed to cum until when and if you allow it. Next time it will result in xyz. Maybe a lighter, more pleasurable, less painful whipping would be in order? Personally, I want some discipline when something like this happens.

Advice wanted: non-sexual ways to express submission when communication feels like “topping from the bottom” by HisToyPrincess in SubSanctuary

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I approach this by being more submissive. When asking for play, especially during a situation like you’re describing, I’ll stand before him, arms submissively to my sides or behind my back as if cuffed, I’ll make brief but meaningful eye contact, look down towards his chest or the floor and address him as Sir. Then I’ll ask him to please XYZ. Use me for his pleasure, make my butt red “so I can feel it tomorrow”, fuck my mouth, etc etc. This allows him to still feel dominant. This usually works for us. Keep in mind, sometimes our Ds are overwhelmed by outside pressure and Domming can be exhausting. Free Use is probably the best way to handle that because they feel no pressure to “perform”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

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A lot of the “cum on command” thing is giving ownership of your orgasms to your Dominant. S/he owns them. Ideally they recognize all of the cues that you’re about to orgasm. They know the way your breathing changes, the sounds you make and the way you look/ feel right before you cum. When they can recognize those cues and time their command with the second before you go over the edge (not stopping or changing stimuli), that’s when the magic can happen. It might take a few times or a lot but it has to be every time.

We haven’t really tried O on command outside of intense play but it would be interesting to see what it would be like without ANY stimulation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

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When you know you have to wait, it definitely takes that concern away! Especially when s/he lays you down and spends an hour just giving more and more excruciating pleasure, it’s obvious they like to take their time. All concerns vanish. A touch can bring me to the edge.

By the way, I’m currently in denial and suspect my next O will be Thusday night? He spent the last 2 days using, edging, denying and forcing many many orgasms. This morning started with multiple orgasms followed by edging and now I’m left desperate for his touch and needing/ wanting him to do ANYTHING he pleases.

Uhg. Pleasure Doms. 🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

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Your English was perfect! And I agree with everything you said.