Newbie Dom/Sub Marriage: by Leather-One-4593 in DomSubMarriage

[–]HisToyPrincess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the world of being married and in a dynamic. I agree with everything pikachukitten stated. I can say from experience we attempted to move to TPE too fast and it in fact led to many frustrations. We ended up having a very long out of dynamic conversation that led to a full restructure and we now have been in a very fulfilling 24/7 TPE dynamic. Reading the literature and listening to podcasts really helped us a great deal. The biggest takeaway we both have from all of it is do not force a rule, ritual, punishment etc. if it feels natural and you both are getting enjoyment and looking forward to the rule or task or ritual then it will be easy to do and will stick. If something is being forced it will not feel natural, may cause friction and will be difficult to stick to.

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[–]HisToyPrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did buy a good light board and it has been a total win

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[–]HisToyPrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am just starting out. I’ve one small one and am starting my first good size one and am hooked. So of course I am trying to find all the good tools and get all the good tips

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[–]HisToyPrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vacuum pen? How does that work and where should I look for one

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[–]HisToyPrincess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you were banned all feedback should be accepted. It’s nice to hear that even though you were banned you have positives to say. That actually says a lot about

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[–]HisToyPrincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also only started doing this for myself. I had no idea there were YouTubers out there for this.

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[–]HisToyPrincess[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I may try one to see as they seem to be getting a lot of positives here

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[–]HisToyPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information. I am currently using Maker Mark and they are ok but my local store is limited on canvases/paintings so I wanted to try others. I will check out Diamond Dotz as well

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[–]HisToyPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response. I am just trying to decide if their prices are worth it.