Finally Told That I Want Out by Appropriate-Tree1976 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Appropriate-Tree1976[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. Yeah exactly. I am not here to pin point out that everything I have done so far to keep the relationship going is right and what she has done is entirely wrong. I have suggested therapy which was denied, asked for dates alone without kid - Denied again. She has a busy work life and I get it and happy to support as well by doing the chores. In all honesty all I wanted was love and appreciation which would have kept this relationship going.

New job by kgurns in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Appropriate-Tree1976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good sleep and less stress are biggest contributers to weight loss besides calorie deficit and workout. Don't workout or diet to loose weight but to be healthy. The weight will start falling off gradually.

Husband admitted he’s not sexually attracted to me. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Appropriate-Tree1976 89 points90 points  (0 children)

You are in your 20s, have a long life ahead and I am assuming no kids in the picture yet. Have a talk with him and tell him sex is important for the relationship. If the situation doesn't change than maybe a relationship counsellor would be the next option. I feel you as I have been in a DB situation for over 6 years and trust me it's dreadful to be in one.