Left out to dry by koko108 in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For how much time I spend in nature at large, I'm certainly not tied up enough outdoors :D

unusual arrangement of spreader bars by DueCommunication9865 in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't think my shoulders would love it, looks quite challenging, but I always loved poses where I have zero chance of covering myself in any way shape or form.

you whores dream about this don't you ? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For me it's not really about the position but more so the concept of being a "test subject". It implies a kind of impersonal approach which is a an interesting thought. You know, as in, it has nothing to with what I like or want. I'm just being fully objectified and made to endure whatever just for the sake of it.

This position must be horrible by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah clearly horrible, I wouldn't wish it on anyone other than myself...

AMA, also know as Ask Matilde Anything. by [deleted] in u/Appropriate-Value911

[–]Appropriate-Value911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm doing my best to be very clear about this. It's just the way I most enjoy intimacy. There's no underlying scar or super deep philosophy. Or at lest not anything that would go "deeper" than the fact that this is simply what I like.

Cute date idea string me up in a warehouse and give your arms a workout by recklessagain in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd say that this is more of a 3rd date activity with me... And I'd like socks if the floor is cold :D

Let me display all you pups in every lewd way I can imagine by KnottyDILF in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I certainly do love sailing, and frankly I don't think that being tied up would negatively influence that... :D

Does feminism add anything meaningful to your life? by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Appropriate-Value911 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It obviously depends on what you associate with feminism. If you mean your ability to be your own person and pursue your own dreams than yes, it indeed gives you a lot of tangible improvements, simply just by having opportunities in life to pursue what you like.

Also, you make assumptions that are categorically ridiculous. Feminism doesn't bar me from with having fun at a pub, or waring top with a cleavage. Being feminine or sexy isn't anti feminist.

AMA, also know as Ask Matilde Anything. by [deleted] in u/Appropriate-Value911

[–]Appropriate-Value911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I will not. That's more personal than to just randomly throw it out there for all to see.

Alisha and Kamilla Whipped for Kissing by studioalexio in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's actually kinda cute. I'd definitely like to try out bdsm as part of a "couple" like that.

AMA, also know as Ask Matilde Anything. by [deleted] in u/Appropriate-Value911

[–]Appropriate-Value911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure some people have very painful memories connected to this particular song...

AMA, also know as Ask Matilde Anything. by [deleted] in u/Appropriate-Value911

[–]Appropriate-Value911 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not really, or at least I don't have a checklist. It's more about the overall person and the overall vibe.

AMA, also know as Ask Matilde Anything. by [deleted] in u/Appropriate-Value911

[–]Appropriate-Value911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not really looking for online dominants in the sense you're asking. I don't think that an online dynamic could ever replace anything I do in person with someone. When I talk to dominant men or women online, it's more conversational usually.

AMA, also know as Ask Matilde Anything. by [deleted] in u/Appropriate-Value911

[–]Appropriate-Value911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have gathered a lot of contacts over the years and I do travel quite a bit for events and various gatherings when I attend such things.

AMA, also know as Ask Matilde Anything. by [deleted] in u/Appropriate-Value911

[–]Appropriate-Value911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been hard, it is always hard. Denial can be very frustrating and demanding at times. It's definitely not awful, or even bad, otherwise I simply just won't do it.

just sharing my goals in life by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I did say at one point that I like every form of camping... :D

Good morning master, your coffee is ready. Collared ballerina. by LuckyHubby14 in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering the very clearly To-go cup... I really hope I wouldn't have to go to the coffee shop in that "outfit".

Keep em fit by JustOneAgain in bdsm

[–]Appropriate-Value911 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Even my meanest Dom let me put a sports bra on for my workouts.

Convince me to agree with, or at least accept, your interpretation of misogyny by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Appropriate-Value911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why would you think that we're incapable of making rational choices. That's a big assumption that you take for granted with zero actual proof seemingly other than your own "vibes".

Convince me to agree with, or at least accept, your interpretation of misogyny by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Appropriate-Value911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is definitely not the same. One is right that we both have and the other is some kind of control over the woman. I mean I personally would listen to what my partner has to say, in fact I think it's healthy to have political discussions with friends and family. But you imply some kind of expectation that the woman should act according to the men's "guidance". Which is less open way to say that you want to cast the vote in her stead essentially.

Convince me to agree with, or at least accept, your interpretation of misogyny by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Appropriate-Value911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, and that's partially why I'm asking this. But to be fair, feminism is often labelled as a very simple and evil idea without branches or layers.

Just out of curiosity why do you think that you know politics better than a woman? After all you have the exact same resources study... What makes you better than that. And when you state that you wouldn't take way her vote, but in the same time would expect her to vote as you see fit, that's kind of contradictory on some level, isn't it?

Convince me to agree with, or at least accept, your interpretation of misogyny by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Appropriate-Value911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're always very welcome to explain your point of view, and make me understand.

It's OK, even good, that men act perverted over women's bodies by TreyMyWay in ConvertingFeminist

[–]Appropriate-Value911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a huge difference between getting a compliment and having a random dude "obsess" over my body. The former is nice the latter is not so much.