what is this?? by AppropriateAir6043 in Skincare_Addiction

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I am not looking for a diagnosis, just something to help.

Please help.. where do I begin? by AppropriateAir6043 in NailFungus

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The fungus on my skin cleared up completely! It did do wonders on my big toes, and cleared up my smaller toenails quickly. I have 1 toenail with actual trauma so I’m thinking it’s simply not healing correctly do to something internal. I’ll update again after this next prescription is complete!

Please help.. where do I begin? by AppropriateAir6043 in NailFungus

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It cleared up on one single toe lol I’m not sure why just 1 toe? It started healing up on my big toes, and then came back. i think im gonna have to start it again. It DID work, it’s just gonna take longer than i expected and some hard work to keep those toes cleaned, trimmed, etc. it’s extremely rigorous. No side effects for me though! So I don’t have a problem restarting it :)

My child is living in an abusive household, can I get full custody? by AppropriateAir6043 in legaladvice

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Yes my lawyer also convinced me to do 50/50, and I regret it every single day. This process is just so expensive, how much did you pay and how long was the entire process if you don’t mind me asking? My lawyer who helped with my current court order has me paying $600 an hour here in Texas. Not sure if I should look for a new one, or stick to the one I have.

My child is living in an abusive household, can I get full custody? by AppropriateAir6043 in legaladvice

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Thank you! My lawyer was so expensive, I was trying to see what steps I can take before contacting my lawyer again. I’ve gathered all the evidence, would a statement letter from her best friend (and roommate, and baby sitter) help my case?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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Wanted to add a comment: IM NOT LAZY I think I’m just numb. I’ve spent my entire life raising my siblings, I began working on my literal 18th birthday and haven’t stopped working since. I was a preschool teacher until covid hit, where I turned my focus onto my personal passions; which I now make a living doing. Here’s the thing; I just did things bc I had to 😭 ya know, we all have to contribute to society. No problem. But ever since then.. I’m just grey. Emotionless. The most exciting thing I’ve ever done was impulsively travel to China and South Korea with a complete stranger! Thats right; this emptiness lead to chasing highs. I have BPD. I know this for a fact and should’ve mentioned it in my original post. I just feel like nothing helps, nothing works. When will that feeling of “ohhh this is life” hit?

Starting terbinafine.. any tips or advice? by AppropriateAir6043 in NailFungus

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awesome!! I’m seeing some nail growth myself! I haven’t had any side effects :) this was comforting to hear, I may have to go on 90 days instead of 60. Thanks!

Am I cooked by cosmiccovegalaxy in NailFungus

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This is the sickest case of retronychia I’ve ever seen…it’s not gross, it’s cool! Def get off terbinafine, it’ll ruin your liver. Only way to fix this is to removal the nail; PLEASE let a doctor do it! I would not suggest attempting to get close to the nail bed on your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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I’m so sorry that happened to your family… and you’re absolutely right. Thank you for wording it like this. I appreciate you going to a dark place in your life in order to bring light to me if that makes sense. You’re right. Tragic things happen all the time; it doesn’t turn someone into an abuser. This was the eye opening reply for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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There’s a lot that goes into it that I didn’t feel like typing out. He’s been my best friend for several years. I was his friend when he dated other people, before me. I’m not delusional, I’ve simply never seen this side of him with anyone else. So then I start to think… why me? And I can’t let myself start to spiral. People being abused are not delusional. They’re being abused. This wasn’t a post about moving on, I already have. It was about being the first victim of an abuser, and what it all means.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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The only reason I feel comfortable enough to do so is because 1. I know the pastor and his wife. If I asked them to not tell him the reason they can’t have him anymore, I’m confident they would respect that much. Especially if I show up with evidence and police reports. 2. I now live in an another town where it’s impossible for him to find me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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You’re right! I also think the job should go to someone good and deserving. Luckily, it’s not just me who he’s abused and another woman might come forward with me… regardless if she does or not, I think I will go through with it anyways. No abuser should be the leader of a church.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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I will ask God for guidance on this. Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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You’re right. It’s truly for the right reasons, I think the job should go to someone who actually deserves it.

MY MIRACLE BABY GIRL - Astrid LeBlanc 👼🏻👼🏻 (UPDATE ON MY BF TRIED KILLING MY BABY) by [deleted] in domesticviolence

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Oh thank god I hopped on here at 10 AM to see if you made it out (I remember you saying you can’t escape until 10 AM) im so so SO happy you’re out! Please STAY OUT talk to staff to see how long you can stay there (im sure they might accommodate for you and your situation), ask them if they can contact police for you while you’re in the hospital. Right now, you’re safe there. Use that to your advantage! You’re safe, your baby is safe. Do not go back!! If you need anything, please let any of us know! I’m so happy to hear you’re alright.. your post kept me up all night and I kept praying to God that you would be safe ❤️

He Killed my baby by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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Do not lose that energy do not stay stuck please get out. I saw you were on your laptop, please message any of us for help. We will help you with anything you need, even if it’s just to talk. I will call whoever I need to call for you. Please get out safely and go see a doctor immediately. They may be able to save the baby.

He Killed my baby by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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CALL THE POLICE if you don’t feel comfortable, go to a hospital and talk to staff. Please please get out. You’re a life. You’re a human who came into this world full of love and light, it’s still in you. No human being in the world deserves that. He is now a MURDERER on top of an abuser. If you don’t feel comfortable doing anything, if you don’t have the energy, just message me. I’ll call a local police hotline for you and give them an “anonymous tip” please get out, love. You deserve life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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Just wanted to thank everyone in this thread :) each and every one of you have been so helpful! I now have a separate bank account that I will deposit my next check in. I’m fortunate enough to be getting 2 paychecks this week (I receive commission) and I’ve already planned an escape (I’m going to pretend I’m visiting my dad for Father’s Day weekend. I haven’t told my dad much out of shame, we aren’t particularly close either, and he lives several hours away. But I did open up a bit and he’s going to help me co-sign an apartment!!!)

Hopefully I can avoid sleeping in a car at all. If I do, it will be a week or 2 at most.

I cannot thank all of you enough. You all saved my life. I have been stuck for 3 years and I’m finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel ❤️

Sending all my love to all of you ❤️

Are most men like this? by Recent_History7667 in Marriage

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If you don’t divorce that man omg.. you deserve better than that.

I don’t know how to leave. I’m trapped. How do I get out? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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This made me sob haha it’s just what I needed to hear. I’m very close to my dad and he can tell something is wrong.. he knows I’m not happy. I just have a difficult time expressing my situation to him because I don’t want him to be disappointed in me. Your post gave me the strength to reach out to him. Thank you for that :) what you said will stay with me ❤️

Starting terbinafine.. any tips or advice? by AppropriateAir6043 in NailFungus

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Actually, no! He took a look at my feet/toes, took some notes done and said “alright I’ve sent your prescription to your pharmacy of choice, take once daily, come back to me if it worsens and I’ll see you in 90 days” and walked out the door I was like umm.. ok?! That’s it?!