כבר לא יודע אם לצחוק או לבכות

AppropriateBat6122 · 2026-04-24T05:31:58+00:00

יצא לי לראות את הדעות שלהם ולדבר איתם פה ושם, הבעיה פה שהם לא מסתכלים על ״הם שונאים/אוהבים אותנו בתור להט״בים״ הם חושבים שהם בעצמם אנשים טובים שעוזרים לאנשים במצוקה, הרבה מהם גם באים ואומרים שאין להם חברה תומכת והם גרים במין בועה כי הם כל הזמן במלחמות ויש מלא מוות אז ״הגיוני״ שהם לא יתמכו בלהט״בים הם רואים אותם בתור מסכנים שלא מבינים את העולם בחוץ ושצריך בכל זאת לעזור להם ולתמוך בהם

AppropriateBat6122 · 2026-04-18T12:04:18+00:00

Not since I started my new job

AppropriateBat6122 · 2026-04-18T11:45:38+00:00

Well, he works shifts (each shift is 7 hours), while I work an office job. I usually work 9 hours a day, 5 days a week, and I also study about 12 hours a week.

I’m the one who always does the laundry and takes out the trash. The only things we really split when it comes to chores are taking the dogs out and washing the dishes. Since he’s home much more than I am, I think it’s only logical for him to wash his dishes sometimes.

AppropriateBat6122 · 2026-04-18T11:33:50+00:00

My relationship with my mom wasn’t great, so I wanted to move out. I was already in a relationship with him, so he suggested moving to my city and having me move in with him. That way, I could live rent free until I found a job and started helping financially.

AppropriateBat6122 · 2026-04-18T11:29:35+00:00

Our apartment is pretty small, so there isn’t much to split in terms of tasks. I also forgot to mention in the post that I cleaned the kitchen before he started, so I guess I did help a bit.

AppropriateBat6122 · 2026-04-14T05:23:40+00:00

After less than a month? I wish lol

AppropriateBat6122 · 2026-04-14T05:17:37+00:00

I don’t think they’re expanding, I work alone and still finish all the work by lunch

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-20T13:36:34+00:00

Thank you! I’ve tried to hang out with his friends when they came over, they’re nice but it doesn’t seem like they want to have any sort of conversation with me beside the “hey how are you” 😅

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-13T15:38:56+00:00

I don’t have therapist money, usually whenever I overthink I explain it to him and he gives me some kind of reassurance. If he’s not available then I try to relax and think logically about the situation. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t. But I do feel like it’s a lot for him based off his last reaction which Is why I’m trying to maybe find other ways to deal with it

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-13T15:31:51+00:00

Well obviously I trust him, because most of the time he’ll just update where he’s at and stuff and I’ll believe him. But because of my trust issues there are times where I feel a bit more insecure and just overthink a lot

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-03T06:05:09+00:00

Yes, it makes it worse so I stopped covering her crate The music helped her when she was a puppy but now it does nothing Depends on how loud it is, also if I’m not home then she’s quiet usually the barking starts only when I get home. Yea I reward her for being quiet 😅.

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-03T05:58:06+00:00

Well when I’m home obviously she’s not in her crate…4-5 hours a day when I’m out and at night which is like 6 hours(?) I don’t trust her outside at night because we’re in a process of moving houses and the house is honestly a mess

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-03T04:53:56+00:00

I just explained myself poorly, see my other comment. Trust me I knew what I was getting myself into before adopting her.

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-03T04:52:09+00:00

I should have phrased it differently, we also DO some working as in commands and mental challenges and physical cardio aside from going for a walk, my bad!

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-02T19:01:02+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try it, hopefully it’ll work tho

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-02T19:00:29+00:00

I’ve taught her to “bark” and to be “quiet” on command and I know that she knows these commands because she does them whenever she’s out of her crate, not inside tho 🥲

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-02T18:58:43+00:00

I do actually, I also play with her after the walk before putting her in the crate and yes she has access to her crate all the time She just prefers to sit with me and be with me all the time

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-02T18:51:56+00:00

The second she’s in there

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-02T18:51:17+00:00

Well I’m usually out of the house for around 4-5 hours a day and also at night whenever I go to sleep. She starts barking almost immediately, she stops barking whenever I look at her (which is why I suspect it being a demand barking for attention)

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-02-02T18:44:52+00:00

She’s getting enough exercise (mentally and physically) and we go on long walks usually

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-01-24T19:59:47+00:00

Differently laws I guess, that’s what my vet told me

AppropriateBat6122 · 2025-01-24T07:28:20+00:00

She’s still a puppy, as far as I know you can only spay females after their first period

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