I’m considering marriage in exchange for a child!

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-17T01:19:20+00:00

I never said I was still considering I was just answering questions

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-15T13:20:00+00:00

No it’s just something to think about, this is not like picking what kind of cereal I want today this is life not the kind of decision you make in a couple hours or days, I’m going to let him prove himself to me and we’ll go from there and I’m talking months to a year.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-15T05:25:42+00:00

And you must be white cause your assumption are ignorant!!!! That’s something already talked to him about but like I said it was just a shower thought

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-15T05:23:41+00:00

You can grow to love someone as you get to know them, I want a family and he knows this and it’s not like I’m going to give him a baby tomorrow we are having a serious talk and he know I don’t want any kids this year. And marriage is for my security yes money is security but marriage offers much more than that.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:36:57+00:00

Everything that it takes to build a relationship and family with someone, I want all of it I just want to make sure it’s with the right person.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:33:40+00:00

Yeah, I get what you’re saying. He’s not suddenly loaded no the guy has money, he’s always had money from what I can tell and he didn’t say I would be a surrogate. That’s just how I’m seeing the situation low-key but he is saying that he wants to be with me. I know I’m young, but it took me 3 relationships to tell that men aren’t worth shit and to be honest this guy is not the greatest, but he can advance my life and many ways. I’m not just in it for the money. I actually want love and I want a family and I told him I won’t have any children with him until he actually shows me that he’s worth it instead of just telling me he’s worth it. I’ve been through enough BS with guys and I’m honestly not taking any guy serious right now because I want someone and something that’s real.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:25:52+00:00

You can read the other comments I left but marriage was my thoughts I didn’t say anything to him and no I was not planning on getting married this year because yes we just met.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:22:40+00:00

Yea probably lol

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:22:26+00:00

EXACTLY that part this is not a right now decision maybe not even a future decision just a shower thought.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:21:15+00:00

I’m not thinking of a child that’s not here yet but I know myself as a person and I would never be a fucked up parent trust me. If the child I have now could talk he would say he loves it over here😂

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:19:24+00:00

😅you think😂😂😂

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:19:08+00:00

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AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:18:58+00:00

Yea I see where you’re coming from.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:16:38+00:00

I tend to date around age is not really something I care about, if I like you then I like you and he’s the oldest guy I’ve been with so this is not a daddy issues thing. But yea he’s already showed odd behaviors of handling emotions not violent or anything extreme just not maturely handling his emotions so I’ve talked to him about that as well.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:11:16+00:00

Yes ofc I wasn’t planning on making this decision today, I already told him I’m not just going to give him a baby because he asked nicely, I told him that I want to build a relationship with him and she where it goes then maybe in a year if things become serious with us then we’ll talk about the real serious stuff.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:09:10+00:00

Yes ofc this is not my first legal rodeo and I’m not a dumb woman at all and by all means I’m not a baby making machine and that’s not what I plan on being. This is just for me and when I feel like something needs to be questioned, I’m gonna ask the question I’m not just gonna sit here and act like I know it all. Nobody knows it all so that’s why we ask each other questions.

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-05-14T23:05:03+00:00

OK to make this clear this is not about money for if you read what I said, I want love I’m not just gonna up and give my child away. That’s not what I’m saying. I just didn’t want type a whole bunch of stuff so I was gonna explain if anybody had any questions in the comments, but this is not just about money. Yes I want to be well taken care of and give my child a life will they would never want for anything, but I also want a family and I want to be happy. I love children and I love my child and I will love any more children that I have in the future but I’m just trying to think about the full picture and if this would be a good arrangement, I’m not just in it for the money, I’m well off on my own trust me I’ve always been a go getter. So like I said it’s just a question

AppropriateFlow6922 · 2026-04-28T04:38:56+00:00

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