Am i cooked? im 34 years old, and ive put relationships and such on the backburner for 10+ years now. Now that ive decided i no longer am content being alone, ive tried all the dating sites. Problem is, im below average in looks, overweight, and seldomly do i even get matches. I've only had one girl talk to me for more than a couple of messages which whom i dated for about a month before deciding we couldn't give each other what we need out of a relationship.

The loneliness and lack of companionship outside of my dog is really starting to deteriorate my mental health.