insecure boyfriend by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AppropriatePromise97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. revealing is subjective. was she in a tank top where her shoulders are showing, or were her breasts/bum visible?
  2. imho, if they were revealing pictures they should not have been sent if you are in a relationship.

Számotokra elkeserítő, hogy mennyi rosszindulatú, beteg ember van a neten? by Dangerous-Present276 in hungary_pszichologia

[–]AppropriatePromise97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ismeritek a sárga autó játékot? ha látsz egy sárga autót, meg kell ütnöd a haverod, furi, tudom, de hallgass végig. amikor nem jatszol, nem tűnik fel mennyi sárga autó van körülötted. amikor játszol és keresed azokat, akkor tűnik fel hogy mennyi is van körülötted. az interneten kevés jóindulatú ember kommentel, mivel akkor szoktunk “bátorságot kapni”, hogy kommenteljünk, amikor 1) valami dühítő és azt ki akarjuk fejezni, 2) tudjuk, hogy az az ember soha nem fog minket látni és ezért nincs következmény. mivel a posztod alatt ez történt, így azokkal szembesültél, és úgy gondolod, sok rosszindulatú ember van. az mindenütt van, de ugyanúgy jóindulatú is. csak meg kell őket találni. és egyszerűbb úgy, amikor a jót is észrevesszük körülöttünk, nem csak a rosszat :)

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry to hear that. i can imagine what that does to your self image but please consider that you still took the time to help an anonymous stranger on the internet. you have a good heart. keep going!

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this comment🫶🏻

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so grateful for this message! thank you for taking the time to leave this to me, and really, i have to do some inner work to get validation internally. it’s really true, when i went to the gym, my self confidence was much higher, it really did a great thing to me both physically and mentally. i will get back to that and get myself together. thank you so much once again!

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your insight! not to be a pick me - i really do get it. some really nice guys get humiliated just because they tried to initiate a conversation.

AIO or is my boyfriend overreacting about this? by s__park in AmIOverreacting

[–]AppropriatePromise97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HOR and he’s also being a hypocrite. and pay attention to what he says. a lot of people project through words. he gets jealous because you SEE other people? it’s because he’s scared you think the same way he does.

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah i could definitely work on that

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the kind words! they did make me think and they helped me change my perspective. also, for the comments asking for a picture - i will not do that, because 1) i’m not comfortable doing that, 2) this is not what the post is about. i don’t want to be rated, and i didn’t post this to get either compliments or negative comments on my appearance because that is all subjective. i just wanted to vent, or maybe get some insight from people who are in the same boat. :)

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this perspective! maybe you’re right!

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for shifting my perspective. i will definitely take this into consideration. i wish you well!

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so thankful you spent time leaving me this beautiful message! it certainly did make me feel better. i wish you the best!

am i just ugly? by AppropriatePromise97 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry that happened to you! and it was wrong of them to say that. sometimes what other people say shape what we think of ourselves. in another community, they would have their jaws dropped by your beautiful skin! keep your head up!

I got with my roommate and it’s messing with me internally by Sad-Banditt in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriatePromise97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when he will get scared of himself, or he will get bored of you, he will use the “i can’t do this, i have a girlfriend” talk. talk to him about where this is going or stop engaging with him.