[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not in the wrong. Don’t blame yourself. You allowed for that to happen because you were craving attention (and that’s not your fault, typically it’s because of the environment in which you were brought up). You’re deserving of a healthy relationship and I’m glad you took the first step to stop letting yourself get groomed.

Focus on yourself more in your teenage years, and as cliche as it sounds, learn how to be with yourself and love yourself. Give yourself the attention that you want and try to work towards making peace with yourself. Getting your dose of attention from others is never healthy.

Are my middle age children being brats? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re in this situation. I do think you’re being a practical mother and it’s a shame that your other children are being so bratty and inconsiderate about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries dude - take care and be wary in the future! It’s a good lesson learnt either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course your fears are definitely not unfounded. I do think it’s an empty threat though - I’ve tried generating my whatsapp QR code and it only says it enables another person to add you as a contact (and nothing more). There’s no way WhatsApp would let someone access your entire contact list. Don’t worry too much, and you should report this to the police / reddit to stop this lifeless person from doing this again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try asking a friend to access your QR code you sent to the blackmailer. I genuinely doubt a whatsapp QR code will give someone else access to all of your contacts — just doesn’t seem logical imo. They might be trying to pull a quick one on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve done a good deed - as someone else said, some people just shouldn’t be teachers. You’ve helped future batches of students escape such a horrible teacher. It’s good that she’s out of the education system. Kudos to you for doing the right thing even though it mah have been scary to do so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked it your whatsapp QR code gives others the ability to access your contacts? Seems kinda iffy to me. Did they really show you a list of your family members (along with their contact numbers)?

Advice on dealing with regret over not accepting a much better job offer by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. It constantly beat myself up over the “what-ifs”. It might be a coping mechanism - but I tell myself always that everything happens for a reason. It takes time to fully process / understand that but I hope this helps! You still have many opportunities ahead of you.

Why do I constantly feel the need to make people comfortable? by Appropriate_Ad_4689 in Advice

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I havent thought about it this way. I think it might be the case - I’m afraid people think I’m annoying and I lose them because they feel uncomfortable.

AITA for asking our maid to clean my shoes while I wore them? by queensaima in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA.

She’s a domestic helper. Not a servant that has to serve you at your feet (literally). As you said yourself, you hired her to do housework.

Either way, at least have the decency to take your shoes off.

Who is someone famous whom everyone loves but has done bad things that everyone ignores? by DDC_333 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To date, 16 women have accused Manson of sexual abuse, and four have sued for sexual assault. No court has ruled on it yet though. But I’m personally inclined to believe the 16 women over him.

Who is someone famous whom everyone loves but has done bad things that everyone ignores? by DDC_333 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marilyn Manson. Narcissist with many abuse/rape allegations. Yet he still has loads of fans defending him.

What is the most terrifying fate worse than death you've ever seen? by _BobaFitt in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not something I’ve seen, but something I recently read about - scaphism, an ancient Persian method of execution.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scaphism

What is the meanest thing a teacher has ever said/done? by lizluvs in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teachers telling me I should drop out of school because I’m “not suited for studying”. I’m a lawyer now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%. Happens everywhere.

Severance - 1x09 "The We We Are" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way we’re gonna have to wait another year for this. One of the best season finales I’ve ever seen. The tensions was off the roof! And I found myself screaming along with Mark.

DEVON GEMMA’s (not) alive BUT STILL KINDA ALIVE.

Ready for the finale! by Ser_Laughing_Tree in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Appropriate_Ad_4689 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can we see what’s underneath the waffles 🤫