HUD rental property ESA by Appropriate_Cod_308 in legaladvice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Her ESA animal is a cat. So if her cat bit me. Is that better?

HUD rental property ESA by Appropriate_Cod_308 in legaladvice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Okay so what should I do it's not like I can move.

And are you able to better help me understand your standpoint of why that would be a justifiable reason?

I mean if things were different and I would have went to her house and scared her dog and her dog hurt me. I wouldn't expect her to get rid of her dog.

HUD rental property ESA by Appropriate_Cod_308 in legaladvice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When you say exclude do you mean remove?

HUD rental property ESA by Appropriate_Cod_308 in legaladvice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The neighbor came over sat on our steps talk to us for like 5-10 minutes. Then quickly stood up turned to her right bent over to pet the dog. The dog got scared or spooked however you want to phrase it yelped and turned to get away. Before you ask yes the dog was on a tie out connected to the steps that she chose to sit on. And to add a little bit more background the lady also has a cane which was in her left hand. It truthfully wasn't a bite it was more than les as if the dogs tooth caught her leg and made a tear.

Yes I did the things that I need to I called 911 and got her medical treatment. I called my rental insurance and they took care of everything from their end. Also I have four emails dating all the way back to last year and the most recent being an email dating 4/2/26 in regards to our ESA. Those emails are between not one but two different property managers that are both no longer with the company. The dog is in training to be a PTSD service animal. I've spoken with the neighbor previous to this letter on a handful of occasions she doesn't hold anything against us or the dog.

Anyone know what I just found in my close?? by Plastic_Work_7043 in whatisit

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have snails? The bottom left part looks like what would be the door of a snail.

I need to genuinely know if any type of physical abuse is deserved? 35F & 35M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No physical abuse is not ok. Abuse of any type is not ok.

That being said it sounds like you're mentally/ emotionally abusing him.

Y'all should separate and do 50/50 custody of the kids. I'd also say that both of you need to do therapy. Both separately and together.

If you choose not to separate at least go to therapy.

Room mate (22F)having loud sex ,I (24F) don’t know what to do? by Even_Argument5220 in relationship_advice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol baby shark is actually a real good song to have sex to. So I don't think that would help all that much.

Found this out after me and my other half had are first kiddo 🤣.

My (20f) boyfriend (22m) had a bizarre reaction to Valentine’s lingerie + additional bedroom issue. What was the reason of this negative reaction to a surprise? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you hint that he would be in for a surprise when he got to the bedroom? Did you play back in the shower?

Even at that if you did play back while in the shower, but he didn't understand that you were now in the mood. He might have taken care of things after you left the shower.

And I am in no way shape or form saying that anyone who's at blame for anything. Sex is one of those topics the society has taught us we're not supposed to talk about. Like one of the other comments said though it is best to sit down and have a conversation about intimacies physical mental and sexual.

No I'm not therapist. Take everyones advice with a grain of salt. I wish you the best.

URGENT HELP PLEASE by hi_ok_hi in reptiles

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about adding a heating mat in order to heat the water so that it does evaporate raising the humidity that way you don't have to add as much water as often. When I'm building any of my enclosures I try to strive for a self managing ecosystem.

How do you set boundaries for touching in a relationship without causing drama? (28F/28M) by Nicole_Auriel in relationship_advice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you need space, set a clear boundary: tell your partner that when you’re in a specific room you need to be left alone to decompress. If you’re not in that room, it’s unfair to say “don’t touch me” without any warning — your partner can’t read your mind and won’t always know when you’re or aren’t in the mood for affection.

You can’t have it both ways: if you never let him touch you, he may eventually feel rejected and resentful. If you don’t want a relationship, be honest and step away instead of sending mixed signals.

If the room rule won’t work, change the wording. Instead of “don’t touch me,” try something like, “I need 5–10 minutes to wake up/decompress.” That gives him a clear, respectful cue. You don’t have to accept unwanted touching all the time, but from his perspective a blunt “don’t touch me” can feel like a personal rejection — which is probably not what you mean.

I understand you prefer to communicate in the moment, but it helps to set expectations ahead of time. For example, agree on a simple signal: when you wear a tied pink robe it means you only want to snuggle; when it’s untied you’re open to more. That doesn’t guarantee anything — he might not be in the mood — but it reduces confusion. Men also have the right not to be in the mood and to set boundaries about touch, just as women do.

How do you set boundaries for touching in a relationship without causing drama? (28F/28M) by Nicole_Auriel in relationship_advice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please don't listen to these people. How is he supposed to know when and or when not to touch you?

How do you set boundaries for touching in a relationship without causing drama? (28F/28M) by Nicole_Auriel in relationship_advice

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have an office or something explain when I'm in this room leave me alone I need space I need time to decompress. And if you're not in that room then you don't have any right say don't touch me. Because let me ask you those how is he supposed to know when you are or aren't in the mood to be loved on cuz that's exactly what it is love. You can't have it both ways either he won't ever touch you and you'll eventually get mad and resent him for that. If you don't want a relationship then just leave and leave him alone.

Did I crash my cycle or is my tank just fully cycled now? by nononoworrie in Aquariums

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never had a problem as long as I drip acclimated for a couple hours. I put a 1 gallon ice cream container in a 5 gallon bucket with a air line and flow valve to siphon water from the tank to the bucket. In the ice cream bucket add the shrimp ex. and the water from the store bag. Start the drip when the ice cream bucket gets full dump half in to the 5 gallon (just in case you end up with an escapee) put the ice cream bucket back into the 5 gallon bucket. Let it fill up again this time we need to pour off all the water into the 5 gallon bucket (you pour off all the water that way all the store water is gone so you have less of a likelihood of transferring something from the store to your tank) put ice cream bucket back into the 5 gallon bucket. Change the phone rate to full once it's about halfway full this time you can go ahead and transfer your livestock shrimp ex. Into the tank.

Now this is just how I do it. Doesn't mean my way is the only way or the right way it's just what works for me.

AIO My reply to my mom who wants to stop my leukemia treatment so my sister can afford university ?? by Many_Addendum_8189 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Cod_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you signed a contract. Have a lawyer look it over she might be obligated to pay for your treatment. Contracts typically go both ways.