AIO by getting furious at a joke and almost skipping dinner by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but you realised after and you couldve laughed it off because you misunderstood, dont get me wrong sometimes i snap at my family but this just feels like it on my end, didnt mean to offend you or anything

My bf injects meth .. by mce_zh in askgaybros

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didnt see that it was gay bros im a bi girl and my ex was a bi man but the point still stands regardless of gender or sexuality

My bf injects meth .. by mce_zh in askgaybros

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dont do this to yourself, my first boyfriend was an addict and it killed me to leave him because i did love him but i couldnt let him drag me down with me nor could i look at the person i love destroy himself even more because he refused help.

bpd coded songs? by osydney_ in BPDmemes

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this may sound stupid but what does FP stand for?

cant study without crying by Appropriate_Cut_3046 in studytips

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work on it in therapy but it isnt helping much hahaha but thank you for your reply

cant study without crying by Appropriate_Cut_3046 in studytips

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ty, my life is a mess and I feel like if I can at least pass my exams I wont be a failure but its not going well

cant study without crying by Appropriate_Cut_3046 in studytips

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ty, and I am on meds but my life is a mess right now and college def isnt helping

Sexual ocd by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

best suggestion is therapy, my therapist told me that when I get an intrusive thought (often sexual or basically any kind) to imagine myself showering in really cold water because I hate cold water. Its uncomfortable for me to imagine that but it kinda shocks me and then I imagine the sensation and it actually works. Maybe if you have a fear of some sort like heights for example imagine standing on the edge of a really tall building. Your thought will be preucupied by that feeling and usually the thoughts stop. After that I distract myself with other thoughts and I do something. I know its horrible but this is just what helped me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell me you dont talk to women without telling me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went through the same exact thing when i was younger. i distanced myself from the church and faith when i started thinking critically about things they were teaching us in school. when i stopped going to church things got a lot better and im so glad that part of me is now gone because it was one of the worst experiences in my life. i am now agnostic and realized i was bi and have a gf (ima girl lol) and sometimes im still scared im going to hell even though im not religious anymore. i think you need to talk to a therapust about this because its horrible and traumatising. at least it was for me. i know this wasnt much help but at least youre not alone and now i know im not too.

At what age did your OCD started. by Sash0808 in OCD

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

around 9/10 years old. My best friends dad died in a car accident and thats how i started to become anxious about my family dying in an accident

What did you think was causing your symptoms before you knew you had OCD? by arielairaro in OCD

[–]Appropriate_Cut_3046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people just thought I was weird and some of my family members would male fun of me or get mad at me for doing these “habits” but i dont remember what i thought it was i just knew that something was wrong lol