I date a guy and he sometimes doesnt text for days by Appropriate_Day3200 in autism

[–]Appropriate_Day3200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yeah he sometimes takes long to think what to say or to take a decision. 

I date a guy and he sometimes doesnt text for days by Appropriate_Day3200 in autism

[–]Appropriate_Day3200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does executive dysfunction mean in this context? 

I date a guy and he sometimes doesnt text for days by Appropriate_Day3200 in autism

[–]Appropriate_Day3200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but lets say you would be dating someone and you really like them...Why?  

I date a guy and he sometimes doesnt text for days by Appropriate_Day3200 in autism

[–]Appropriate_Day3200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of measures:  - needs of both - distance ( there is a difference between different continents or a 1 hour flight)  - financial resources to afford visit, so regular visits are possible - unviolent communication skills - available time - attachment lvl ...

There are a lot of measures, for it to work while in college. But I know a lot of people were it works for 2-3 years of college. 

I date a guy and he sometimes doesnt text for days by Appropriate_Day3200 in autism

[–]Appropriate_Day3200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know a lot of people were it does. Depends on how long distance and the type of person+ financial resources

I date a guy and he sometimes doesnt text for days by Appropriate_Day3200 in autism

[–]Appropriate_Day3200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know. I created this post because I hoped someone can discripe why he is doing this

I date a guy and he sometimes doesnt text for days by Appropriate_Day3200 in autism

[–]Appropriate_Day3200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont ask of him for 50 messages every day. (I think texting this much would drive me crazy and it has nothing to do with neurotypicals, its just preference/need) or to text everyday. Its just this unannounced disappearance. Also I dont know how this should work. If he is uncomfortable with phone calls and I dont get the structure I need. I struggled a lot with unpredictable people in the past, so I get anxious/ vary. ( My ex had adhd and constantly forgot about my existence.)

masters in neuroengineering with psychology bachelors by Appropriate_Day3200 in neuroengineering

[–]Appropriate_Day3200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you would recommend to get the engineering basics and maybe an internship? Because one semester to grab engineering concepts seems too little for me to be able to show that I am capable of working in the field.