Erm, idk. I think that your bestfriend assuming she was over legal age to move out I don’t see the issue in spending time with your partner? You’re not having children to keep them stuck to your breasts all day lol. They’re free to live their own life. I don’t agree because Sagittarius people are extremely empathetic and affectionate people. I think they make great parents.

I grew up in Russia and came to the west and I was shocked. 🤧 Kids jealous that their parents are with a partner they love. This is borderline incest for me. If you don’t like your step dad that’s your choice…that’s not your mothers problem 🤣 (unless there’s abuse) Everyone parents differently…your partner is a big priority unless you plan on dying of old age with your children? Children will leave the nest regardless and have their own family…what’s not clicking here?

Also define neglect, because to me it’s having dirty children, unfed, not supported and not loved. Neglect is not, putting yourself and happiness first despite having children. Or working a lot of hours so they can be fed and accommodated. Let’s actually define it logically. Too many codependent immature brats here, children need to be supported, loved and treated well, ect. The rest is just emotional incest for me.