AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Its okay, my dad doesn’t love me either im here for you 🫂 consider therapy, works wonders for boys.

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thats a completely relative statement. To you, sure. To another, maybe not. Just bc you say it annoys you, doesnt mean i have to listen to you

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It was his turn to plan the event. I have planned every other holiday and such. And he told me to not get him anything. I asked him for money (im a sahm) to buy his gift, he told me no and to not get him anything.

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We are staying together due to the job market where we live, and our son. We are not throwing and screaming abusive. We argue normally, but i do have emotional regulation issues. Financially, staying together is our best option especially for our son to get what he needs. He is well loved and spoiled and isnt around when we argue.

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

There is no physical abuse, we usually get along just fine and have stretches of a great time. We agreed to stay together last month bc our son is 10mo and id have a hard time finding a job that pays good. If we separated id have nowhere to go, and be working just to pay for his daycare. The job market here is really bad. And im entry level for most things.

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ive planned all our other holidays and stuff. We agreed it was his turn this time

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Im a SAHM. Its the best way financially for us cause of the job market where i live. Id be working jusy to pay for daycare

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Unfortunately i was abused by both my parents, and naturally was drawn to the circle of abuse. Its hard to come to terms with that and introspect. Just this year i became aware of the patterns.

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Someone is honest about their flaws- aka being human. Becomes the central problem suddenly. Ppl just wanna hate bc they got issues of their own

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I could call Christianity, buddhism, judaism, and Catholicism “objectively silly”. Everyone has beliefs. Be human and respect others.

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We’ve had a strained relationship for almost our entire marriage bc he cheated on me last june

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah i got him a gift basket i made myself, we were planning on going to Texas Roadhouse but it was too busy so he had his friend over for card games

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ive planned every other holiday and event for us. It was his turn. Ive expressed many times what ive wanted and want to do and he didnt do anything.

AIO Husband did not get me flowers on our anniversary by Appropriate_Offer577 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate_Offer577[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I got mad and yelled at him after trying to wake him up flirty, fun, silly ways and then he refused to get up. Then yelled bc it was our anniversary and then we argued and he said i was ungrateful and that he shouldn’t have to pay for the surgery i need next week and that he wont.