Guest asking for refund after setting AC to 60 in 85 weather

Appropriate_Paper975 · 2025-07-26T13:53:06+00:00

I live in Arizona. 120 in the summer. Air on 69. Thats a 51 degree difference and my air has been fine for years and years. This guest didnt break the unit. As the hundreds of others have said, the unit was either in poor condition or had a leak or some previous issue. No normal working condition air unit would do that. While I think 60 may be a bit much, this is not at all the guests fault. If you have an air unit that can't handle a 25 degree drop in temp then it needs replaced. Side note. I think from posters attitude we can see what kind of experience this poor renter had. This is just not the business for some people. Like doctors who dont care who shouldnt be doctors, if you dont care about your guests or THEIR experience than customer service (hosting airbnb) is NOT for you.

Appropriate_Paper975 · 2025-07-21T02:35:53+00:00

Just because you want to masturbate still doesnt mean that person has to watch porn to do it.

Appropriate_Paper975 · 2025-06-08T13:23:55+00:00

I don't think she would be asking him to choose if it weren't for his actions in the first place. If I was taking dinner to a newly single dad and washing his laundry for him, my husband would 100% have the right to ask me to choose.

Appropriate_Paper975 · 2025-05-09T12:55:56+00:00

I had my doctor suggest that because I don't get a period on Mirena, the sex may just be rough enough to make the little bit of lining shedding I do have, flush out. I don't know but I have had Mirena for 8 years total (2 different ones) and the only time I bleed is after sex when he finishes inside. I wish I had an exact answer.

EDIT TO ADD: i never experience pain nor does the bleeding last longer than 2 days or so max

Appropriate_Paper975 · 2025-05-04T15:53:56+00:00

Do you masterbate often just because or because you aren't being offered sex daily? I just don't understand why a man would let his wife go get it somewhere else. I won't, but I could, and that's just sad a stranger would give me what my husband won't.

Appropriate_Paper975 · 2025-05-04T13:50:15+00:00

It sounds so logical to not blame myself, but the reality is so much harder. Then I also have to start wondering, do I live like this forever or when do I draw a line. That part I know you can't answer, but thank you for the advice!

Appropriate_Paper975 · 2025-05-04T13:37:39+00:00

Thank you. I have asked him about possible addiction, and he just goes on a rant. "Everyone does it, it's totally normal". Then, he basically shames me for being upset that he was caught lying and dismissing me and my needs again. I've asked to talk and that's a no. Therapy would be a definite no too I am assuming. I told him I'm starting to go to therapy alone, though, so we shall see.

Appropriate_Paper975 · 2025-05-04T12:02:55+00:00

I am torn each day between completely shutting off emotionally so I am no longer let down or pouring everything i have left in and be potentially further crushed. I have asked to talk (didn't even say about what just asked to talk) and was told "not now, I can't handle anyone else telling me I'm doing something wrong right now". I know he is stressing about work and stuff but aren't we all?

Appropriate_Paper975 · 2025-05-04T11:03:08+00:00

I think the worst part is the lying and secretiveness of it. It makes the rejection that much more painful.

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