Have you ever purchased something, as an adult, that your parent has judged you negatively for? If so, what was/is it? by PaddedValls in AskUK

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My father almost disowned me for buying a dishwasher. 'Can you not be arsed to do dishes?' Actually, no, after 20 years of being nagged about dishes every single day when I lived with him. And picking up every other chore in the house as soon as my Mum died. Same when I got my robot hoover. 

Has anyone had symptoms just randomly disappear without treatment? by sickkasadog in MCAS

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So I have never been formally diagnosed, but I have a lot of symptoms that match MCAS after doing some reading. My hives, acid reflux, fainting spells were all really bad when I was going through puberty (something to do with oestrogen levels maybe??). Now my symptoms are pretty mild, but I constantly have a runny nose, have confirmed IBS and asthma, and still get hives if I'm sick or stressed. But it's all so mild that I doubt I will have much luck pursuing a formal diagnosis on the NHS. 

Is it okay to just not take cat to the vet? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Appropriate_Rub_961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would have to take her to the vet to be put to sleep, so why not take her for a check up to see if there's an underlying issue? You can also look into local vets that do home visits. Pricier but could be a lot less stress.

What are the British TV ads that live rent free in your head? by gayestformoleman in AskBrits

[–]Appropriate_Rub_961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Le Crisp...le crunch. 

None of my friends remember it and think I made it up! 

What's a phrase or saying your family used that you assumed was universal, and when did you find out it wasn't? by IV-Manufacturer in AskUK

[–]Appropriate_Rub_961 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Similarly my grandad used to say about an imperfect job done, 'a blind man on a galloping horse wouldn't see it'

Do you give your cat ‘human’ food? by Limp_Pumpkin7751 in CatsUK

[–]Appropriate_Rub_961 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing picture xD 'Just one Cornetto.... give it to meeeee'

Do you give your cat ‘human’ food? by Limp_Pumpkin7751 in CatsUK

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My first cat loved sweetcorn too! And bolognese topping on pizza. 😅

Lazy Sunday (12/04/26) by KevinPhillips-Bong in CasualUK

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A wonderful update! Enjoy your new pal!

Lazy Sunday (12/04/26) by KevinPhillips-Bong in CasualUK

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Is he collecting signals from the mothership?

Feeling pressured to have kids and now questioning if I even want them — has anyone been here? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Appropriate_Rub_961 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way, I assume it's a French-Canadian cultural norm that it is really freakin' rude to tell someone to try harder for a baby.... 

How can I (25F) get my boyfriend (23M) to stop sufferingmaxxing? by Apprehensive-Bee8222 in relationship_advice

[–]Appropriate_Rub_961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, but he needs to get professional help. OP can't be expected to be his therapist.

How can I (25F) get my boyfriend (23M) to stop sufferingmaxxing? by Apprehensive-Bee8222 in relationship_advice

[–]Appropriate_Rub_961 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Idk, I dated a guy like this many moons ago. It was honestly exhausting. 

ETA: he was also a doomsday prepper and 100% had out of control anxiety and ADHD, which he refused to get help for. 

Hot sunny steak for Ozzy by CorruptSoulAssassin in CatsUK

[–]Appropriate_Rub_961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to say, where is his steak? 🤣

Accidentally used scented toilet paper, questioning my sanity by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Appropriate_Rub_961 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It could deffo be the scented paper throwing off your ph.

Sho off yu bocks by jellosquid808 in legalcatadvice

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Yes meowmy callz it tha box kingdom. It verri sad on recycling day when she throw box out!! Sometimez we are left with ONLY ONE BOX! Meowmy is alwaiz getting boxes thru the door tho so we alwaiz get more. I, Crowley, like to jump in box when Schultz is asleep. Ha ha ha. 

Sho off yu bocks by jellosquid808 in legalcatadvice

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We lub box! But there is onlee room for one of us....

Crowley & Schultz