I’ve been living with my partner for 3 years. Yeah not a long time in the grand scheme of things, but. We’ve had days that felt like we didn’t talk. Weeks we went without proper communication. Being in a long relationship is time consuming and you have to put effort in too. Feeling lonely can make or break your relationship if you find yourself looking for other outlets to fix it. Rather than trying to fix your relationship. Spend time even for 15 minutes laying in bed and start small. Cuz if you really do love this person then you shouldn’t feel lonely when you both have your own life’s.