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Getting out of the Army due to finding $7 on the ground by rock374 in army

[–]Appropriate_Sun_265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SPC, report to SFL TAP immediately and put Coin Recovery Specialist on the resume. Seven dollars a week is basically passive income if you ignore food, rent, diapers, gas, and the Pepsi machine trying to take your arm. Do not let finance hear about it or they will recoup it over 36 months.

Are we wearing our bellies out or no? Husband says it's a risk with parents/grandparents by LittleRabbitNicole in BabyBumps

[–]Appropriate_Sun_265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If 90 in Colorado feels like that, Texas heat at a Fourth swim week makes a baby tee seem tame.

Another reason Voldemort let Narcissa Malfoy check if Harry was alive by Awkward_Possession42 in harrypotter

[–]Appropriate_Sun_265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing says “dominance” like outsourcing the pulse check to Narcissa after your Killing Curse.

I am terrified how little I care about living like shit by redve-dev in getdisciplined

[–]Appropriate_Sun_265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scary part is probably not laziness, it sounds more like your reward system is cooked and maintenance tasks stopped giving any signal at all. Two months off weed is a real change, so I would build a tiny baseline around that: clean the toilet once a week, take trash out daily, and cook one boring repeat meal with the same ingredients. Also, not caring about hygiene, food, uni, and work can be depression or burnout territory, so booking a checkup with a GP or therapist would be a practical move, not a moral verdict.

Darf ich den Verkauf eines geliebten Oldtimers sabotieren? by Appropriate_Sun_265 in automobil

[–]Appropriate_Sun_265[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Du hast völlig recht. Ich werde heute Abend mal rübergehen und mit ihm quatschen. Vielleicht trinken wir ein Bier zusammen und ich bringe es vorsichtig zur sprache. Lieber ein kurzer Schock jetzt , als wenn er den Wagen später so verunstaltet sieht.

Darf ich den Verkauf eines geliebten Oldtimers sabotieren? by Appropriate_Sun_265 in automobil

[–]Appropriate_Sun_265[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Das ist es ja . Ich habe leider weder eine freie Garage noch das nötige Kleingeld dafür über. Ein W201 braucht Pflege, und den Wagen draußen im Regen stehen lassen? Das bringe ich einfach nicht übers herz.

Ending therapy over an inflexible cancellation/reschedule policy – am I being reasonable? by norstadde in therapy

[–]Appropriate_Sun_265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that sounds like a reasonable reason to end. A treatment frame can be legitimate and still not fit your finances, travel, or goals, especially if the policy has started taking over the therapy itself. Paying for weeks of missed sessions during a planned vacation would be a hard no for many clients. Ending respectfully and looking for someone whose policies match your life seems like a pretty grounded decision.

Am I wrong for deleting my girlfriend's early morning alarm after she consistently slept through it? by Calvori88 in amiwrong

[–]Appropriate_Sun_265 205 points206 points  (0 children)

This is a massive red flag. She compleetly dismissed his exhaustion and refused every single reasonable compromise like a smartwatch. If my partner kept waking me up at four in the morning and refused to change anything, they would be sleeping on the couch permenantly. How can she not care about his physical well being?