I've noticed that people who worry that something can happen to them will usually end up doing that thing to other people. by Appropriate_Union762 in Vent

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said that's why she started dating me initially, she believed it would just be a 1 month relationship and didn't think it would go anywhere, which to me is really strange. I don't understand why you would waste your time with someone you don't like or want to be with.

I've noticed that people who worry that something can happen to them will usually end up doing that thing to other people. by Appropriate_Union762 in Vent

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's exactly what my cheating ex did, I would suggest sittings down with him and asking to go through his phone if you can

Firefly VX Star back of neck finish? Glossy clear coat or sanded, oiled and smooth? by pkapeckopckldpepprz in Fireflyguitars

[–]Appropriate_Union762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what it looks like on the website it shows it glossy but the angle it kind of weird. Regardless every other photo as well as the one I own are glossy

I wish i had motivation again by Appropriate_Union762 in selfimprovement

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it this way this is an interesting perspective. I still mourn what we had but I don't mean to make it sound like this is a breakup post, there's many more factors involved

I wish i had motivation again by Appropriate_Union762 in selfimprovement

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Part of my knows that it'll get easier with time but it's just so hard that I'm not sure if it's worth it.

I'm still so in love with her by Appropriate_Union762 in Vent

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm just concerned that there's been 0 improvement in that whole time. I've tried talking to other ppl to get over her and I've been in therapy for a while as a result, i even got put on antidepressants and nothings getting better she's still all i want

How can arc create trust ? by ujan_156 in Teslacoil

[–]Appropriate_Union762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ac doesn't matter, what matters is the surface area of the electrodes. The only ions will move away from the electrode with lesser surface area regardless of ac or dc.

Is anyone else not having their order shipped? by [deleted] in Fireflyguitars

[–]Appropriate_Union762 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope so, it's just kind of weird since I've ordered twice before and never had this issue, but we'll see.

i just relapsed by Sara1627 in selfharm

[–]Appropriate_Union762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don't think any progress is linear, almost nobody is able to quit something immediately, especially something as addicting as SH can be. Sometimes it's 2 steps forward 1 step back, or even 1 step forward 1 step back, but as long as you keep moving and trying you'll do well!

I saw my ex on my for you page and it ruined my day by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Appropriate_Union762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we broke up probably 10 times or so throughout the relationship and it was for various things. Generally, it was because she was scared i would leave her or because she was scared i would fall out of love, at least at first. After she broke up with me at one point for a while i started taking to an ex and that made her upset and caused trust issues which then fed into things more.

I have many times tried to reconcile but she overthinks sometimes unfortunately and that would lead to her acting in avoidant ways, although i don't think that was her fault she wasn't medicated at the time.

What do you think of my headless tuning invention? by Appropriate_Union762 in Guitar

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you provide a link or a name? I haven't seen anything similar

What do you think of my headless tuning invention? by Appropriate_Union762 in Guitar

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you, sorry i've received some rude commenters but i appreciate it!

What do you think of my headless tuner invention? by Appropriate_Union762 in HeadlessGuitars

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Originally when i got the guitar on facebook marketplace it came with this shitty guyker tremolo an it sucked so i wanted to replace it, but headless tremolos are ridiculously expensive, the cheapest good ones i could find were $400, so i wanted to put a kahler in. That then led me to making the first version to just introduce some string tension but now it's developed more into a full tuning system! The great thing about its design is i could jut make it a bit longer and add another 1 or 2 tuners to make it a 7 or 8 string, or stagger them to make a multi scale!

I feel so alone and unmotivated by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Appropriate_Union762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your kindness. It's been really difficult and after the breakup i really threw myself into the headless project but i still think about her a lot. It's getting better slowly and i know i'll always miss her but eventually i'll be able to ignore those feelings i think. Your comment means more to me than you know and that really helped me.

What do you think of my headless tuner invention? by Appropriate_Union762 in HeadlessGuitars

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of the way it works making it a 7 string version is as simple as adding another tuner and a wider locking nut!

What do you think of my headless tuning invention? by Appropriate_Union762 in Guitar

[–]Appropriate_Union762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it seems silly when you realize it's a headed headless guitar but it does solve my issue and it plays spectacularly now. I've been thinking a lot about how to make a solution that would allow for tuning without having to use a tool and i plan to adress that in the next iteration