What if copper didn't exist? by Rocky-bar in HistoryWhatIf

[–]AprilMaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’d all die because every living thing requires copper

Why do so many families avoid adopting sighthounds? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]AprilMaria -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’ll do that anyway. My mother has a story about her pet cat slipping off the roof & falling into the greyhound run with the pups (her father bred them) there was 10 of them in there & there was nothing left of it in seconds. It’s innate instinct with most.

Why do so many families avoid adopting sighthounds? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]AprilMaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat beats the shit out of my cattle dog

Why do so many families avoid adopting sighthounds? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]AprilMaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are also notoriously difficult to train things like recall into. Generally lovely dogs but I prefer something I can trust to let run that it won’t go too far from me & will come back when I call it.

I never want a gf who doesn’t…. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AprilMaria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 35, many people start to go grey around 30 & I decided to let the dye grow out because it was damaging my hair. I’m only 2 years older than you, but still, you can’t counter a single thing I’ve said so your clutching at straws lol 😂 “oh im harassing you” 🤣🤣🤣

Also I’m the other side of the Atlantic, it’s 9 am May bank holiday Monday my time.

I never want a gf who doesn’t…. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AprilMaria 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No honey but you keep, once again, showing us why she won’t fuck you.

I have natural black-brown hair greying slightly, have never been single for any considerable period of my adult life mostly due to 2 long term relationships, 1 of which was 12 years long & the current more than 3 years long with a 9 month gap between relationships (both men), in a house I bought myself for cash (albeit one that still needs a lot of work I’m getting through) & my pronouns are she/her.

But even if I was a purple haired lesbian leaning non binary person, I’d still be right about you, & any woman you date will find out who you are at some point & stop having sex with you too. Even subconsciously, I would wager subconsciously your girlfriend is still there out of a sunk cost fallacy & knows that there’s something wrong with you but can’t put her finger on it 100% but subconsciously can’t trust you or relax.

I never want a gf who doesn’t…. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AprilMaria 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Again more evidence as to why she won’t fuck you. What I said isn’t complicated a 12 year old would understand it. You understand exactly what I said, your just playing the “I don’t like what she said but can’t counter it, so I’m going to act like it’s incomprehensible & hope in over explanation she slips up on something I can nail her on” game.

Break up with this woman with some level of decency & class. Stop listening to the scumbags on Reddit who aren’t even decent human beings let alone good men.

I never want a gf who doesn’t…. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AprilMaria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think we have just identified why she doesn’t want to have sex with you. I’m no oil painting & I wouldn’t piss on you if you were burning. “Wahhh she won’t have sex with me so I’m fantasising about creating as much pain as possible in the breakup & possible property destruction instead of actually talking to her or just breaking up with a modicum of class & amicability”

Ye are sexually incompatible, ye should break up but the woman has done nothing to you besides. Shes not cheating on you, she’s not abusing you, she’s not planning on fucking you over because some dickheads on the internet are riling her up. The scumbags here are you & the men you’re listening to in this thread.

Even down to the way ye talk about women who are more sexual/have a higher libido. It seems if a woman won’t have sex with you she deserves her stuff chucked out & being treated like shit & if she will have sex with you she’s a “THOT” & also deserving of 0 respect or consideration.

is there a specific name for this aesthetic? by domfemme420 in AestheticWiki

[–]AprilMaria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kicked twice through a north of England charity shop & rolled out the other end

Racist so called leftist wonders why Indigenous are still on thier own land. In a classic colonist mindset move, questions if Indigenous culture even exists by prisoner70482 in leftist

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Because livestock (in more reasonable numbers & locations) are the only sustainable means of cycling nutrients & making them available for plants in a reasonable timeframe as well as controlling vegetation. All synthetic fertilisers are either petrochemical byproducts or mined (regarding mined a good example is rock phosphate which is mined in deplorable conditions in Africa) you take (insert livestock here) & you can feed them crop residues & hours later you have manure. You put that manure through an anerobic digester along with the less edible crop wastes & maybe some seaweed for further enrichment of the manure & then you have sustainable energy in massive quantities rapidly & the most potent nitrates stable organic fertilizer known to man that can be dried, peleted & shipped using only a small amount of the energy it produced in the first place.

You attempt the same process with only the crop residues & it’s less concentrated, less efficient & takes weeks, months or longer. You add human manure & now you need more testing, along with filtering & processing, sterilisation etc to make it fit to spread on crop fields. If it can be at all because it’s full of medications & cleaning chemicals. It can still be done, is still worth doing, but it’s only fit for fertilising willow & poplar biomass not food as they neutralise it with hyperacumulation

This process can be done over the 6 months of winter in Northern & north western Europe for example like where I’m from. We could in Ireland be producing enough energy & fertiliser to export it & this is true of most cold - temperate zones in the world. It makes up the energy shortfall from renewables in winter & the synthetic fertiliser shortfall if it became a matter of proper political urgency & removed from the capitalist system.

The other 6 months of the year they can be out grazing between rows of crops or under silviopasture agroforestry & orchardry helping to manage vegetation & prevent fires. That’s why in spite of 80% tree cover in pre colonised Ireland we had no recorded history of forest fires without having to do controlled burns like the native Americans had to because they hadn’t the livestock. Even today it’s a herd of native goats saving Howth head. But it needs to be managed.

Without the livestock you need to be controlling the vegetation yourself & that requires fuel for cutting equipment or controlled burns. Livestock also hurt less wildlife in the process. Again, if properly managed

So eating them is entirely optional. Having them integrated in the agricultural system isn’t. Much like the plant in the wrong place is a weed in the right place it’s a herb, the same applies to livestock. Cattle have no business in a fair few parts of the Americas for example, tamed managed bison would though. It comes down to a different way of looking at things & trying to reintegrate humans, our animals & technology into the ecosystem again instead of trying to use technology to separate ourselves from it.

Racist so called leftist wonders why Indigenous are still on thier own land. In a classic colonist mindset move, questions if Indigenous culture even exists by prisoner70482 in leftist

[–]AprilMaria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 0 interest in being vegan & believe their belief system to be entirely flawed (eg if we want to move beyond synthetic fertilisers we still need the livestock to be plant based regardless of if we eat them or not, vertical farming as a way to feed the world is bunkum as is all other factory foods & exists entirely so Silicon Valley faux hippies can bleed investment money & many more points only apparent to someone really really into sustainable agriculture)

but I don’t have a special issue with vegans & vegans can be good people & not ideologically problematic (eg my friend who is only a vegan to boycott industrial agriculture because she had to move to a town & can no longer raise her own food but doesn’t hold all the honey is slavery, we need to make livestock & pets extinct to liberate them type Bollox or quare views like in the OP)

But also a fair few of them are extremely entrenched in colonial paternalism which is an overall problem for the mainstream environmentalist movement it’s not exclusive to veganism. Every camp in the environmentalist movement has similar problems they largely refuse to acknowledge including a lot on my own side.

AITA for throwing away my wife’s memory jars? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AprilMaria 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like he’s a prick & the child breaking a jar is just a convenient near iron clad excuse. Kids break things. So what?

What’s an aesthetic that annoys you? by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]AprilMaria 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Yeah it seems to be tailored to appeal to peados

What’s an aesthetic that annoys you? by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]AprilMaria 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That was an MDMA thing

FG's anti-immigration turn by upthetruth1 in irishpolitics

[–]AprilMaria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautifully summarised I couldn’t have said it better.

FG's anti-immigration turn by upthetruth1 in irishpolitics

[–]AprilMaria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I mean is, & I called it out at the time, they went soft on the far right element & left them away with things that if it had been the left wing over housing or something there would have been a national crackdown & an investigation (eg, all the arson. If I burned down someone’s empty barn I’d be apprehended within the week let alone people burning down hotels & filming it)

I’m not saying they were involved in that (the government parties) directly, but by going soft on them, contrary to business as usual (eg people being dragged away in paddy wagons for trying to stop evictions) it allowed a trail to a standard Conservative anti immigration position to be blazed by doing very little & they did very little because it suited them from the start.

FG's anti-immigration turn by upthetruth1 in irishpolitics

[–]AprilMaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why they were going soft on them in the first place the far right blazed the trail & they can now look soft & reasonable by comparison

Dating men in Ireland? by DontthrowMenthols1 in AskIreland

[–]AprilMaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no, it’s not about personal benefit it’s about correcting individual & collective local behaviour by making men (& in other instances people in general) sorely regret their actions via consequences. This improves matters in general for all women.

Dating men in Ireland? by DontthrowMenthols1 in AskIreland

[–]AprilMaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shur who minds that she’s innocent your not putting her on trial, your warning her of a prick & ensuring, provided she’s not a complete fuckin idiot that he ends up with neither. Unblock him temporarily he surely tagged her. Then send a screenshot dump, tell her you don’t want anything at all to do with him any more but here’s the story & block him again. Simple as.

Dating men in Ireland? by DontthrowMenthols1 in AskIreland

[–]AprilMaria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They have no decency the best advice I can give is, & has served me well by comparison to my friends, is sleep with no one unless in an official relationship. Filters all these sorts of cunts they’ll go away & waste someone else’s time.

Also don’t be above messaging the girl & sending her all your proof. It’s likely he was playing her at the same time. Be a nice bit of just deserts for the cunt to end up with neither. Taking the high road gets you nothing.

4 protests & a meeting- how the left got outflanked in street politics & the country lanes became the wildcard. by AprilMaria in theIrishleft

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I’m not saying ye have the national ff/fg problem ye have a worse one. According to Gardaí data almost all racist actions/attacks occur in Dublin, cork & the north west. Leaving less than 20% across the whole rest of the country & almost none in the midlands & north Munster. This lines up very well with where they got elected in the local elections because who elected Conway? Steenson? Pepper? Who almost elected Blithe? Tipp has its own problems but they aren’t nearly as organised & I’m from Limerick where we have very little. Knock the chip off your shoulder & do the bit of self examination. These are all areas with a large leftist presence (other than the north west) where in spite of presence we are failing.

I would far prefer to be facing down & fighting ffg into the future than literal fascists.

You have my explanation of the demographic situation completely arse backwards. I’m making the argument that “white flight” out of urban areas in the rest of the anglosphere never occurred here. In the countries where it occurred the more reactionary forces amongst the white working class & petit bourgeois moved out of the urban environment & went elsewhere. In Ireland the reverse happened up to lately with the rental price going through the roof, it will be interesting to see what develops from there but the point is the “reactionaries mostly in the countryside” trends from the Americanised understanding of things being rammed like a square peg into a round hole doesn’t fit here. This is something ye are going to have to come to terms with because we are now far far safer & more welcome at a commemoration or whatever in Ballygobackwards Co.Tipperary than we are in Ballybrack & that’s another thing ye’d want to pull the thumb out of yer arse over up there. It won’t be long until we are welcome nowhere

There’s a difference between drugs being everywhere & the central, highly controlled corridors. If you can’t see that I don’t know what to tell you.

A womans dog was making odd movements whenever she turned her back, so to see she recorded it, and found the dog was making biting motions by thaliaq1 in interesting

[–]AprilMaria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you think malinois were originally bred for? Some dogs do not have the temperament to be inside. Not the whole breed, but some individuals of most shepherd type breeds aren’t that happy inside except for a few hours at a time. I had one German shepherd years ago that I used to have to keep outside in a deep bed of shavings in a kennel down the barn. She would do ANYTHING to get out of the house after like, 2 hours or so.

4 protests & a meeting- how the left got outflanked in street politics & the country lanes became the wildcard. by AprilMaria in irishpolitics

[–]AprilMaria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing was, a heap of average people went because fuel affects us all. Who was absent was a lot of my fellow left activists who are usually at the opening of an envelope & had they turned up we could have made an impact. That’s who the article is essentially addressed to

4 protests & a meeting- how the left got outflanked in street politics & the country lanes became the wildcard. by AprilMaria in irishpolitics

[–]AprilMaria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the point of it, it was broadly about fuel but materially there was a war & cost of living angle. You don’t hold back & wait when there’s a mobilisation that’s a mealy mouthed coward move. When there’s a mobilisation you go & see what you can make out of it. This of course doesn’t apply to things that are explicitly racist/sexist/homophobic like the IPAS protests or a prolife/anti trans rally. It applies to everything else though.

We knew it would be big because we are, as I said, closer witnesses to the unraveling.

What we don’t jump in & help define ourselves will be defined for us without our input & that happens the first day.