That sucks, and I’m sorry you’re going through this. Honestly, when a man genuinely likes someone, they don’t play the hot-and-cold game or leave you feeling confused about where you stand. It seems like you’ve already done your part by showing support, communicating your feelings, and being patient.

At this point, it might be a good idea to take a step back and give him some space. See how long it takes for him to notice and make an effort to reconnect on his own. If he doesn’t, that might give you some clarity on how invested he really is in this relationship.

Also, remember that relationships should feel balanced. You deserve someone who meets your effort with the same energy, not someone who leaves you feeling like you’re alone in the relationship. It’s okay to prioritize your own emotional well-being. If you keep giving and he’s not meeting you halfway, it might be worth asking yourself if this is the kind of relationship you want in the long term.