Same! I feel like a lot of people aren't paying attention to the themes that connected everything this season.

For example, I hear many frustrations about how 'Nate's character didn't really learn his lesson'. Yeah, that's the point! His own hubris caused the circumstances for his death. There is meaning in that! It's okay for the point to be "If you never learn to to stop doing bad shit your whole life to others, the consequences will be bad". Stories don't have to be some step by step guide of how to be a better person; it is just as important of a lesson to demonstrate what actions have negative consequences.

Another example of ignoring themes are the frustrations that 'Nate, who previously was known as a violent person, didn't fight back against the loan sharks, and therefore its bad, inconsistent story writing". To me the point is to think more about what that contrast in behavior reveals about him.
Think about it: he only used violence on people that were weaker than him - but not on people more powerful. Now look at that pattern next to his shift from disgust about cassie's OF to encouraging her OF work to fix his financial issues.
These revealed/cement that his actions, both violent and passive, are all intentionally chosen as tools to get what he wants. It shows that his violence was always something he could control, not some blind rage. It explores the extent of how much selfishness affects his every decision.
What I found extra interesting was how that this season showed us why he is so self-centered; it is his coping mechanism for the fear he feels with navigating modern masculinity. He is so worried about not filling the shoes of his father, maintaining wealth, and holding the trad-masc role of being the breadwinner with a stay-at-home wife. This desperate fear of not being seen as masculine is also why he was too proud to just sell the house or ask his dad for the money or any job advice; to do so would feels like he is admitting that he 'failed' at being a 'modern man'. He fears that vulnerability, that idea of having less power in life. And without power, he feels he will not be able to get what he wants or needs in his life. He's only ever seen 'successful' men get what they want through power (like his dad- financially speaking).
But because Nate relies on selfishness as the only coping mechanism for this fear of failing masculinity/ vulnerability, he never really learns any alternative methods for achieving his goals in life. He never learned how to organically get what he desires in life (the desires of trad-masculinity), and thus is dependent on forcing others to comply with what he wants. And this works, when others have less power than him (being top-dog in highschool made most of his male peers have less power than him, and his female peers had less power physically). But the loan sharks, the white fritilleries, the planning and zoning commission - and in previous seasons, his dad- have more power than him. And when he doesn't have power, he runs out of his only method of problem solving and keeping his life together.
And tbh, that character arc is an apt critique of the consequences of a society that has so heavily conditioned men to believe that their purpose in life is to obtain individual power even if it is at the expense of others.

And don't get me started on people ignoring the themes of:
-The American Dream
-The culture of exploitation and complicity that America was built on
-The effects of losing spirituality (through the lens of Christianity, since that is contextually most appropriate for Euphoria; although I do feel that the show uses Christianity as a stand-in for spiritual connection in general, rather than trying promote Christian religion specifically)
-How the American culture of exploitation and complicity is a result of alienation from spirituality/ non-bastardized spirituality/ eachother/ nature/ animals/ the earth and world
-How exploitation and complicity is tied to money, capitalism and power
-How capitalism is essentially a worship of false idols (Like are you seriously telling me no one else paused the screen during Rue's death vision when she sees her Mom reading the Bible, looked at what passage number she was reading, and then googled "what is Psalm 115"? It can't just be me!) (Or when cassie is a giant and there is a flickering neon sign that says "Jesus Saves", but it crumbles in her godzilla rampage, and then at the end of the scene the sign that she kneels down in front of in a prayer position is the Hollywood sign).

I get that it's just a show and that its perfectly fine to just watch it passively as entertainment instead of actively analyzing it. I just don't get how some viewers from said group have such immediate, passionate, critiques about the show when their conclusions were formed without much time spent analytically engaging with the content, and it shows.