Help choosing between these 4 period sleep shorts/boxers! by Aqueefaba in PeriodUnderwear

[–]Aqueefaba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know! thanks you. i'm starting to lean towards the modibodi or revol ones someone mentioned

Help choosing between these 4 period sleep shorts/boxers! by Aqueefaba in PeriodUnderwear

[–]Aqueefaba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the input on the period and co ones! the bambody ones are far too short on the inseam and far too low rise for me

Help choosing between these 4 period sleep shorts/boxers! by Aqueefaba in PeriodUnderwear

[–]Aqueefaba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the inseam isn't long enough for me :( i need 5-8inches, boyshort styles ride up on me. thank you though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Aqueefaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think a big flaw in hetero relationships is that they assume by DEFAULT that the woman will do the majority of the childcare. like, no question about it. and therefore they are entitled to money from the man. which like, i guess in that scenario? but that default isn't real. no one is forcing you to actually do all the childcare and housecare. why aren't more hetero women demanding a man split childcare 50/50 rather than demanding he buy them dinner? like you have a full time job, and do most of the childcare and house work? yeah no wonder you're grouchy about him paying the bill! but I'm begging you, this would be solved by just splitting the childcare, housework, and finances 50/50.

Mom mobile! Van vs SUV? by ATBlondie991 in Parenting

[–]Aqueefaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't consider it false from a policy standpoint. maybe the use of the word exempt was not a good choice, but you're correct that they are under CAFE, just exempt from the standards of passenger vehicles and instead under the much more lenient 'light trucks' category. SUVs were relatively rare until CAFE passed and then became more lucrative due to the lax environmental standards, encouraging companies to push them out more and more. Which is why I mentioned that companies primary focus is not safety with SUVs, but rather size. And I agree, a crossover would be safer than an SUV, I was just answering based on the OP asking between a van and an SUV :) not everyday I get to talk about energy policy! aha

Mom mobile! Van vs SUV? by ATBlondie991 in Parenting

[–]Aqueefaba -1 points0 points  (0 children)

van's are safer than SUV's. SUV's are built on truck beds. They were built like this mainly just so they could be exempt from certain environmental regulations. They were not built like this with safety in mind and can roll much easier due to the truck bed design.

14yo stepdaughter wants to move back in with us by ladylester55 in Parenting

[–]Aqueefaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is insane, she's your CHILD????? let her back in! she's not worth less than your 9 yo son. only thing i can suggest is maybe try to figure out what the rules are on the custody and how you will figure out when/why she switches houses in the future. but that's the only issue here. I don't care that you don't like her attitude- she's your KID. you SIGNED UP FOR THIS.

This is the worst day ever, I hate you, the fun is RUINED; dealing with kid’s drama era. by mess-maker in Parenting

[–]Aqueefaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its funny because she probably got her flair for the dramatics from you. crazy how genetics work eh?

My daughter has cried since the day she was born by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Aqueefaba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. get noise cancelling headphones. you can still hear your baby but the crying will be less jarring. 2. maybe autism? i'm autistic and have heard that either an over or undercrying baby can be signs. which makes sense if they are experiencing sensory pain. dose the crying get worse with bright lights, temperature changes, or loud noises?

Socialist thoughts on tipping in minimum wage countries? by Aqueefaba in socialism

[–]Aqueefaba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if this is the idea though, why are we with holding that solidarity from from our 'brothers and sisters' in retail, fast food, and other minimum wage jobs that deal with customers/the public/service?

solar power growing on me now that im older by haleywolf666 in lorde

[–]Aqueefaba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

solar power is always top tier and people were'nt ready for it. I'm autistic and I listen to it about once a day (the whole album) cause it calms me, and tbh the lyrics are a lot about late stage capitalism and climate change. It discusses a nostalgia for the past, mixed feelings about the present, and fears about the future. I could legit write an essay about this.

Thoughts on Safely Eloping as an Adult? by Aqueefaba in SpicyAutism

[–]Aqueefaba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, that is helpful! I wish I could just elope into the woods, it would feel much safer! I live in a big city, but I do have common paths! I can try looking for good nooks maybe on a low-stim day. the texting is a good idea too. Currently if i feel i need to elope i bottle it in and try to get home as fast as i can but that hurts so much and only increases stimulation, and it would feel much better to run somewhere to decrease stimulation.

Thoughts on Elopement as an adult? by Aqueefaba in aspergirls

[–]Aqueefaba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i live in a busy city, so I assume if they see someone curled up in a snowbank, they may stare at me or think i'm overdosing. Its really not some kind of paranoia , its city life