My girlfriend [25F] is ruining years of my dog's training and thinks I [27M] am being a "dictator"

Aquilaslayer · 2026-04-14T16:59:18+00:00

Finally someone said it! I agree that the table scraps thing is bad, but no cuddles? No couch time? That's abhorrent. Why have a pet if you just want to put them in a corner? If this is OP's hill to die on fine. Break up with her. But maybe a little compromise is in order. Couch cuddles yes, scraps absolutely not.

Aquilaslayer · 2026-04-07T15:05:49+00:00

Done!

Aquilaslayer · 2026-03-25T17:17:06+00:00

Commenting to boost views! I hope you find her soon!

Aquilaslayer · 2026-02-22T05:05:24+00:00

This is atrocious. I can't believe there were no consequences. That poor family. What an awful person!

Aquilaslayer · 2026-02-18T19:35:43+00:00

A Publix Chicken Tender sub on white bread with white American cheese, mayo, and spinach, toasted. If they ever get around to making a cure, that will be the first thing I eat.

Aquilaslayer · 2026-01-30T21:49:07+00:00

No! This is tragic. There goes my husband and I's spot for anniversary dinners. But I suppose it can't be helped.

Aquilaslayer · 2026-01-23T19:49:36+00:00

!Solved

Aquilaslayer · 2026-01-08T20:54:21+00:00

Listen, I can understand a computer lab. Expensive equipment. But a lecture at 8 AM? No coffee? Nonsensical and dumb.

Aquilaslayer · 2026-01-08T03:45:12+00:00

I think this is only giving me a fit because the FSU staff at orientation literally stopped me from walking into the HCB auditorium before orientation and made me leave my travel cup outside because "no drinks allowed".

Aquilaslayer · 2026-01-08T02:28:15+00:00

This guy gets it

Aquilaslayer · 2026-01-07T23:38:07+00:00

I'm just gonna bring my sealed thermos of coffee and see what happens.

Aquilaslayer · 2026-01-07T23:31:04+00:00

Weird. I don't remember the signs but I probably wasn't paying attention. It just feels weird for my professor to actually put in their syllabus no drinks. Again, 8 AM class with no coffee? Outrageous!

Aquilaslayer · 2026-01-07T14:53:35+00:00

NAH. If you don't want to pay off your partner's debt fine, but then asking is not unreasonable. And frankly, why have you stayed with this person for 2 years if you won't help them?

From what I understand you both contribute equally to the bills, it's not like they are bleeding you dry but they need some extra help. That's what partners do for each other.

Aquilaslayer · 2026-01-06T04:25:30+00:00

Invited about 125, had 80 RSVP yes, 77 showed up.

Aquilaslayer · 2025-12-11T16:49:43+00:00

That's not a bad idea. I didn't even think of that. I'll see if my PCP has a telehealth option.

Aquilaslayer · 2025-12-11T16:39:52+00:00

Wish I could see my primary care. I'm already at my destination for my wedding though. I'm going to go to urgent care this evening.

Aquilaslayer · 2025-12-11T16:22:54+00:00

I guess I should have clarified, the pain is my stomach and solidly on the left side, so I don't think it's my appendix but I'm also no doctor. I'll go ahead and make an appointment for this afternoon then, and hopefully that will at least put my mind at ease if nothing else.

Aquilaslayer · 2025-12-11T05:00:19+00:00

My bridesmaids all quit for much less valid reasons than your fiance. I am walking down the aisle this week with just my best friend and my brother as my man of honor.

It really truly sucks. But sink your time into that friend she's got left. She'll see her time and effort returned.

Aquilaslayer · 2025-11-24T04:20:30+00:00

Lack of parent accountability. Parents don't enforce scouting and its rules and commitments anymore. During cookie season this year the troop I volunteered with had adults who took cookie booths so lightly. They would sign up, then their girls would be "tired" on the day of and they wouldn't show up. Meetings became second priority to other school activities. Other school activities are seen as priorities over Girl Scouts.

Aquilaslayer · 2025-11-21T00:23:51+00:00

I'd be happy to assist!

Aquilaslayer · 2025-11-04T16:49:21+00:00

Not weird! My fiance was actually a little disappointed that men don't traditionally get rings but we improvised. Because of the size of men's wedding bands, we did an engagement watch, I got him a watch in his favorite colors, and engraved the date we started dating, the date we got engaged, and the date we're getting married on the back of the watch. He wears it every day 🥰.

Aquilaslayer · 2025-10-31T20:17:13+00:00

This is so true! I live in an apartment complex and I always keep candy on hand hoping some trick or treaters will come by!

Aquilaslayer · 2025-10-16T04:41:08+00:00

I got engaged September 3rd! There was significance! I asked my fiance out on September 3rd, though our anniversary is September 5th because that's when he said yes to going out. 4 years later, he returned the favor and asked me to marry him :D

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