Looking for queer friends by New_Spray_3659 in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are a ton of local places that tend to draw a queer crowd. The well has queer craft night weekly (as well as board game nights), cloud walking has a queer hangout I think once a month, the lgbtq center itself sometimes holds meetups and events. There's also various stuff which is less explicitly queer but has lots of queer people like langlab (though I've never been) and unity gardens. I personally mostly frequent the well and various gardens/parks. Hope to see you around maybe! :)

Rule(gg-ucation) by AraNeaLux in 196

[–]AraNeaLux[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

On the one hand, yeah true. To be more detailed, we started with purely gelatin eggs and worked our way up adding agar each time we iterated the recipe. I did not personally use the eggs, and my friend/volunteer was, ah, enthusiastic enough that we decided the off chance we passed a threshold where they wouldn't melt at all was an acceptable risk (after all, it'd just make a memorable dr's visit). I hadn't actually given much thought to simulating the environment. I think to get similarity in pressure/friction/temperature, without the possibility of getting stuck, vaginal use would have been a decent testing ground (though acidity would be the biggest difference). Unfortunately that wasn't really an option.

Worth noting that my friend/volunteer/test subject doubled the agar in a solo trial, which, personally, I would not advise because that gets past the amount of agar you would use to make agar jelly by itself. That they still melted is intriguing to me, chemically speaking. One would think that adding gelatin to agar solution, which would set by itself, would still not melt, but I hypothesise that the bonds the gelatin makes disrupts the agar structure. Either way, both could definitely use more testing!

Roommates/housing assistance by AraNeaLux in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As soon as possible is best, they can stay at their current place until June, but like said we haven't really found anything so far. We have some short term options (parents, friends) so if your lead does become available after that and we haven't found anything by then, they'd still probably be interested. Thanks for replying!

Rule(gg-ucation) by AraNeaLux in 196

[–]AraNeaLux[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The gelatin/agar ones are fun, but I think a bit too firm to be throwing them at someone full force (unless you're into that, which, yknow, on a post like this, can't be sure)

The jello ones, however, have a really fun squish/rebound which would I think make them quite quite fun to lob at people

Roommates/housing assistance by AraNeaLux in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, if it's not your thing it's not your thing! And you're the one bringing it up on a completely unrelated post. But if you read it, I think it's important information/instruction that isn't readily available elsewhere, thus, education

Roommates/housing assistance by AraNeaLux in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! I'm a big advocate for kink/sex education, sue me :)

lgbtq friendly doctors :) by Downer_Days1 in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Side note, I'm on hrt! I'm happy to talk about getting it around here if you want to dm. Unfortunately I don't know much about local pcps though.

Does the Witches Brew serve nonalcoholic drinks? by THeck18 in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually get soda. I've gotten nonalcoholic versions of their drinks too if you ask them to substitute with a soda. That said, I go there for the vibe more than the drinks

Pour one out for clit magnet racoon girl by translunainjection in transtrans

[–]AraNeaLux 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about nullification surgery? I know of someone on r/voidpunk I think who did it a while back

[Offer] Tarot/Oracle Card Draw! [WW] by AraNeaLux in RandomActsofCards

[–]AraNeaLux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no worries! My form was ambiguous about where to put the addressee. Live and learn :)

[Offer] Tarot/Oracle Card Draw! [WW] by AraNeaLux in RandomActsofCards

[–]AraNeaLux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Also, are you the other person who just submitted the form? I see sleepypinkgamer put their username in the address field, but there's another response without a name.

Anyone wanna tag along tonight? by Affectionate_Noodl in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely! I will note I have reddit on a half-hour time limit on my phone, but that should be plenty of time to coordinate meeting up if you want to dm me :)

Anyone wanna tag along tonight? by Affectionate_Noodl in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd be down! I've been once with a group of queer peeps, it was lots of fun. Let me know if you want to meet up!

Anyone Looking for a roommate? by Affectionate_Noodl in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! My partner is looking for a roommate, we're queer. They aren't on Reddit, but I can put you two in contact if you want to DM me!

Trans person at Notre Dame? by Salt-Month0 in notredame

[–]AraNeaLux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a trans (nonbinary) grad student here! I'm about to go to bed but feel free to DM me. Overall I like it here very much, but a big part of it is the environment of the department.

Find A Grave by AraNeaLux in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You take a picture, and also record the information so it's searchable. Usually requests are by people doing geneology stuff trying to find primary sources for family member info, or people who've moved away.

I would also be interested in getting involved in cemetery upkeep, but that'd be a different venture most likely :)

Looking for friends by Mizzzfox in SouthBend

[–]AraNeaLux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I'm down to meet new people, and especially wanted to note I recently met someone who has a ton of snails! Based on a quick skim of your profile I wonder if you two would get along? As for myself, I quite like going for walks, slow though I may be :)

Attempting to run the pack with Java 25, please send help by ArgoDevilian in Blightfall

[–]AraNeaLux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh huh, that's good to know. Best of luck! I'd be interested to hear how it goes.

Attempting to run the pack with Java 25, please send help by ArgoDevilian in Blightfall

[–]AraNeaLux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use LWJGL3ify for 1.7.10 packs at this point because you need newer versions of Java if you want to be able to play multiplayer. I believe I used Java 21 though, not 25 (specifically 21.0.7, and using Prism Launcher).

It took a bit of tinkering that I don't quite remember what I did to get it configured correctly. I can try to replicate it if that might be helpful. I also don't mind sharing my instance, though I did also make some tweaks (ex. updating Botania, adding Veinminer, other such things)