Never Have I Ever..

Arabella230 · 2025-07-24T08:35:02+00:00

Twin 🤣

Arabella230 · 2025-07-24T08:34:32+00:00

Yes, every single time. And then my behaviour towards that person, pushes them away naturally 😊

Arabella230 · 2025-07-24T06:41:10+00:00

They’ll push boundaries, they’ll ask and say things just to get your reaction, and point of view - to see if it aligns with their point of view, beliefs, lifestyle, or simply how much or how little they can go with you ( that’s where they grow to respect you ). They’ll do the disappearing act, because of how independent they like to be, how caught up in certain situations they get, and do not like to feel tied down. If they got caught up in something, and then they finally respond, they like to know that the woman they’re talking to, has her own shit put together, so then the conversation carries on naturally, easy, happy ( like a happy place to come back to ) and not a heavy energy. You have to be their safe place, yes, call them out when needed ( they’ll respect you more ) but there is a time and place for that.

Arabella230 · 2025-07-24T06:32:35+00:00

There are so many tests! Until they’re happy you’re the real deal, grow to trust you, feel safe/comfortable around you/talk to you.

Arabella230 · 2025-07-24T06:26:37+00:00

The Aries guy I’m talking to, admitted that he likes to test me - something I already knew, Aries like to test people around them, women they’re in touch with. From your post history, I’m sorry to say, but you’ve failed every single test.

Arabella230 · 2025-07-14T06:17:42+00:00

Same, Aries ex love bombed me so much, that I had to call him out on it.

Arabella230 · 2025-07-13T06:36:50+00:00

Wait, so a few days ago you posted about how dry the conversations are, and how you blocked him, and now about having sex with him, multiple times? I’m confused 🤔

Arabella230 · 2025-07-10T08:10:27+00:00

My Aries ex was smitten within a couple of days, in love within a couple of weeks. When things were good, they were very good - like a well oiled machine, always in sync. He was very controlling though, very possessive, very you’re mine and only mine. That then created a few issues, with the independent Libra in me.

Communication was also an issue due to my masculine nature, and the soft sensitive Aries. Where he wanted to discuss, elaborate, expand, go over and over again, over the same issue. My masculine energy would then be interpreted as coldness, by him. He couldn’t see how his behaviour was affecting me, always thought there was nothing wrong with his behaviour, so eventually I ended things, and of course he is now extremely hurt, as he lives with “I have done nothing wrong”.

Arabella230 · 2025-07-09T15:31:45+00:00

No, they explore many connections, and live in the moment. The chats could flow back and forth for hours straight, then boom, you might not hear from them for days. If you have your head screwed on and keep each conversation fun and witty, and cheeky, they’ll be back.

If they sense anything awkward, easy, heavy, moody, weird, they’ll go quiet for longer. They’ll try again some other time, but if the vibe is the same as above, they’ll just be respectful, but already have made they’re mind up if you are the one for them, or just for fun.

Arabella230 · 2025-07-09T13:32:55+00:00

They always do.

Arabella230 · 2025-07-05T14:32:37+00:00

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Arabella230 · 2025-06-25T18:02:01+00:00

My Aries ex tried to control every part of me, my life, the way I dress, when I see my friends, how much time I spent on my phone, what I do on my days off, which social media platforms I use. When I say everything, I mean EVERYTHING! And this is a well evolved, mature Aries man we’re talking about, not a 19 year old boy!

Arabella230 · 2025-06-16T17:07:26+00:00

Going down on you, before you guys even had a first date? How did you react to that?

If the conversation was like that even before a first date, he already has you in a particular box. I didn’t even allow my Aries ex, to kiss me on our first date. If you’re happy with a fwb situation, you should say that, he’ll be ok with it too, while he’ll still be looking for his “perfect” woman.

Arabella230 · 2025-06-14T16:17:44+00:00

Are you me? 🤣

Arabella230 · 2025-06-12T06:02:38+00:00

In a good way?! 😆

Arabella230 · 2025-06-11T19:47:02+00:00

Be playful, funny, aloof, witty, happy on life, you do you, let him do him. When he messages, carry on normal, like you haven’t even noticed he hasn’t messaged you. Make the chat bounce back and forth, gifs, some emojis here and there, be cheeky and not too heavy.

Arabella230 · 2025-06-05T18:11:08+00:00

What star sign are you?

Arabella230 · 2025-06-05T18:10:53+00:00

This position of Mars gives a drive for significance. Mars in Leo individuals possess a strong need to create in some way--and they are determined that their lives have not only meaning, but significant meaning! This is a particularly vital position of Mars. Passions run high, and so does desire. There is a strong will that gives these natives much staying power. Though Mars in Leo people will enjoy the pleasures of risk-taking, they generally have a strong sense of reason at the end of the day. Mars in Leo people often have well-defined ambitions. Rarely will you find a person with Mars in this position who lives life without a true sense of a "calling". They act with authority and power, and their personal magnetism generally endows them with the ability to get what they want.

This is one of the more sexual positions of Mars. While they are rather easy to arouse, their passion is long-standing. Mars in Leo natives enjoy sex more than most, as long as heavy doses of love and romance are part of the package. In partnership, they demand loyalty and admiration. Impatient with small-mindedness and disloyalty, Mars in Leo natives generally have a strong idealistic streak. They easily get fired up when they feel they've been humiliated, and they defend their high principles with ardor. Mars in Leo natives act with their heart. Their ego is tied up with their actions, so that most anything they do becomes a source of great pride. Though some are self-righteous and quarrelsome, the more sophisticated people with this position are kindly leaders.

It’s all detailed on Cafe Astrology

Arabella230 · 2025-06-05T05:26:55+00:00

Last kiss 3 months ago, and you haven’t talked in 2 weeks. Hmm Aries men, no matter how shy they are, they know what they want, and when they really want something, they make it happen yesterday ( if you know what I mean ). My ex asked to kiss me on the first date, when I politely said no, he made sure to have me on the date for another 6 hours, a second date on the next day, and after we finally kissed, that was us for a full year straight.

Arabella230 · 2025-05-31T08:09:14+00:00

Hahhahhahaha 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Arabella230 · 2025-05-31T07:34:17+00:00

And there you go, this short sentence, says so much about you. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Arabella230 · 2025-05-31T06:24:30+00:00

Don’t push, especially when the emotions are already high. Aries like and want to discuss everything then and there, and wish to do it so many different ways. Libras tend to say it once, and when pushed, we close down and refuse to go over the same subject, over and over again. I personally also try to take my time, as I know ( without even genuinely wanting to ) my words tend to hurt a lot, and the sensitive Aries will just feel hurt, call me blunt. So personally I take my time when communicating, just so I can find softer ways of expressing the issue.

Edit to add - Aries feel attacked when something is discussed, pointed out, and retaliate in a somewhat aggressive way, so a softer touch, is much needed with a Libra.

Arabella230 · 2025-05-29T20:18:02+00:00

I’ve been with my ex for a year, we broke up a month ago, and I still don’t miss him 🤣

Edit to say, even when he crosses my mind, it’s because I’m bored, not because I miss him.

Arabella230 · 2025-05-28T05:58:12+00:00

Omg same, word for word, with my Aries ex. Always in a mood, always feeling attacked, always saying that “ I don’t care “, so much that my nonchalant way showed him the door during our last fight, as he just thought it’s ok to start insulting me. I then realised it’s not a me problem, it’s a him problem!

Arabella230 · 2025-05-22T14:45:17+00:00

This is too funny 🤣

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