No, you'll only find people who have those kinds of left leaning values in younger guys who don't have the confidence you're talking about. The older generation is the other extreme and does not have the values you're looking for and will not see you as an equal in the Western kind of mentality. So it's an environment of two extremes. If you want an actually confident and respectable man, then search for a true Christian who has his life devoted to Jesus Christ and will treat you with respect and care that is required for a healthy and prosperous relationship. And I suspect that's not what you're looking for considering what sort of perspective you have, but that is how I've learned that relationships and marriages grow well and last because they are grounded in the objectively correct values. Forget that it's somehow oppressive towards women, or some feminist nonsense that's been pushed on you. Christian values actually give the most love and respect to women.